I was looking through my boyfriend's phone (with his permission), when I saw a text message that said "I love you." Someone had sent it to him. I kept asking him who sent it. He said he didn't know and that it probably was one of his friends playing a trick on him.
He finally told me that it was his ex-girlfriend and that she still liked him. I also found out that he had been talking to her on the phone a few times a week. He said he was sorry and he shouldn't have been talking to her. He promised that he wouldn't talk to her anymore and he assured me that he had no feelings for her at all.
Even though he said this I still feel like I lost my trust in him. The whole thing really bothered me. Is it weird to feel this way? What should I do?
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It's all good
Well, when we start getting older and we all start having more serious relationships it's not as easy as it was when we were younger to just turn our backs on someone we once had a bond with. So, since your boyfriend is still talking to his ex doesnt mean he still has intimate feelings for her but he still may think she's a good friend...that's just normal...but if she still has deep feelings, you might want to confront her yourself-not aggresively- but in such a way that you might convey your opinion about her feelings about him. --Posted by hollyball9in 12:21AM EST 10/12/06
I think you just need to talk to your boyfriend...this happened between me and my boyfriend but it was her that kept calling him because she wanted him back and she knew if she kept calling him and stuff that I would get upset about it and would break up with him. She was wrong...I talked to him about it and he said he didn't want to be with her, he wanted to be with me... --Posted by lee_lee007 02:40PM EST 10/08/06
You have to trust him!
If you cannot trust your boyfriend to talk to another girl, then you don't have a very good relationship. One of my best friends is my ex-boyfriend and my boyfriend now is completely understanding. As long as he's only talking to his ex, there shouldn't be a problem. --Posted by rockandahalf 11:05AM EST 10/08/06
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