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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

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me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

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my best friend has a new best friend

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both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

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i want people to stop making fun of me...

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my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?


My best friend's mom hates me because I told her a lie. I was trying to stop my best friend from getting in trouble. It has been a year and her mom is still not over it. What should I do?

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    Alright
    Since this happend a year ago, you could sit down with her and let her know that you were younger--and since then you have matured. Explain that you would never think of doing something like that again, and also let her know that you are still sorry. Ask her for a second chance.
    --Posted by christyra11
    07:40PM EST 05/10/06


    
    OK...
    OK...it's nice to be on your friend's mom's good side, but it is really up to you and your friend, not her mom...try to get on her good side, but if you and your friend know that you two are good friends and will be there for each other, don't care what the mom thinks of you...I have had to go through the same thing.
    --Posted by sgracie
    12:11AM EST 05/10/06


    
    Don't Think Anything of It
    Girl, if she still hasn't gotten over that then don't even think about it. If she doesn't like you, tell her more power to her. That's what I would do, anyway. But if you really like her mom then tell her your sorry and that you were just trying to help out a friend and you didn't think it would make her hate you.
    --Posted by charley06
    02:53PM EST 05/09/06


    
    Apologize
    First you need to sit down and talk with her mother and apologize for lying. Most of all you need to tell her the reason why you lied. Listen to how her mother's point of view. Tell her that you understand her side and never meant to for her to feel that way. After all that, ask her if you and her can be the way you guys were before the incident. Good luck!
    --Posted by spinkletop110
    06:49PM EST 05/08/06


    
    
    I totally agree with shoushou86. Be really polite and explain that you did not want to "negatively affect" her daughter and that you were tring to protect her. Most importantly, be REALLY REALLY POLITE!!! She has the power to stop your friend seeing you or at least hinder her!
    --Posted by liveon123
    11:56AM EST 05/08/06



    
    What To Do
    First of all, NEVER lie to her mom again. No matter what! Make sure you do things to regain her trust. Don't do things with her daughter that make you seem immature. You might also want to tell her mom what your reason for lying was. Just be careful!

Good Luck!!
    --Posted by glamourgurl1234
    05:34PM EST 05/07/06


    
    It's a Loss
    Just because your best friend's mom hates you doesn't mean anything. What matters is that you are still friends with whoever it is...to you it may not be worth it but you're not her mother's friend anyway.
    --Posted by sleeplessinchicago
    12:18PM EST 05/07/06

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