 |
 |
|
|
|
|
|
GO WITH IT!!!!!!
I understand how you feel. My boyfriend has a five month old baby boy. He is trying to get custody right now and all. If your boyfriend is trying to be responsible, let him. It helps make a man out of a boy, and can maybe even make a woman out of you. Just go with it and support him when he needs it. Trust me, he will appreciate you afterwards.
--Posted by lestaatlover
03:47PM EST 02/01/05
|
think about your safety here
You have been responsible enough not to get yourself pregnant. By staying with him, you are just taking on someone else's irresponsibility. Plus, now you know that he's had unprotected sex in the past, which is not someone you want to be involved with sexually because it is unsafe for you.
--Posted by martinamartina
03:18PM EST 02/01/05
|
From some experience
He's going to be a father and that's very new, different and scary on his end. ... If you're willing to be with him there's no reason you can't be like a second mother to this baby. You may not be able to go out all the time because he'll be with his baby, but if he's going to be with you and you with him, your opinion does matter. If it gets hard on you, tell him. Voice what you have to say. I do think that you being there for him is a very good thing because right now there are people who may leave him and not look back, and you being there shows real maturity on your part.
--Posted by hislilarmybrat
01:19AM EST 02/01/05
|
Have some good talks...
What you decide to do is totally up to you. I just think you need to start talking to your boyfriend about this a lot, not just one time. You need to tell him how you feel about it/him and what your concerns are both for him, the mother of the baby and your relationship together. You and your boyfriend should come up with a plan about what you want to do about your relationship, but be aware that this plan could change, and that his having a child could significantly change your relationship. He's lucky to have such a loyal and loving girlfriend who is willing to stick by him during tough times. I wonder if he'd do the same for you. Good luck!
--Posted by life_is_sweet16
08:22PM EST 01/31/05
|
|
|
 |
|
