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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

my friend's stealing my stuff

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

My friend is competing with me

my best friend has a new best friend

my friends tease me for being skinny

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?


I just moved and I don't know what to do. I have no friends and no life. I tried doing stuff with some neighbors, but I feel like I have to be someone different just for them to like me, and I don't like it. What do I do?

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     The same thing happened to me. The summer after 9th grade, I moved from New York to Florida. Well, I immediately got on bad terms with a lot of people because of my negative attitude about being in Florida. But I made up for it by just being me and being friendly. Don't be shy or negative! Now I'm a senior and when I graduate, I'll have good times to look back on in TWO different high schools.
    --Posted by AEbrunetteQT
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Do some research. Say you are into a certain kind of music, look up local shows on the internet and find out when they're playing. There are tons of cool kids who share the same interests as you. You could also try joining a community sports team too, if you are into that :)
    --Posted by quik76
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     If you wanna make friends with people, start out with a simple compliment on clothing or whatever, ask where they got it, and carry on a conversation. Or join drama or something at school and socialize there. Just always be you for you!
    --Posted by Cheer_Angel38
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Become a cool loner and everyone will want to be your friend when you want to be alone. It works.
    --Posted by smirking_emo613
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Hi, I know how you feel. With my dad's job we move a lot. Have a principal introduce you to someone at school. That was what they did for me and I made friends pretty quickly. What I did when I was bored was ride or walk around town so I would know what people were talking about when they mentioned places.
    --Posted by Amygal89
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04

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