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If you really care about your friend, you shouldn't let her push you away no matter what. Try to get through to her and let her realize that she needs help and try to get her some. Do whatever it takes to save her if you can, because it's the worst feeling when you lose someone you love. She needs you more than ever right now.
--Posted by Caramel1986
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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If this behavior has recently started, something is probably going on at home. Tell her that whatever is up, you're there for her, and she can always talk. Then back off. Give her smiles in the hall. If the drugs and drinking get dangerously bad, don't hesitate to confront someone else. Talk to a guidance counselor, her parents, whatever. Tell them that she's in trouble, and that she needs help. Good luck with your friend!
--Posted by Emmabellie
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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As hard as it will be and as much as she will probably hate you, you need to tell an adult or she could end up seriously hurt. You could try talking to her but I'm not sure that it will work, it might just make her mad. One of my friends used to do that kind of stuff and when I tried talking to him he just got mad at me. But I talked to his parents and they got him help. And now he has no problem with drugs and thanks me daily for helping him:) so even if your friend is mad at first, she will end up thanking you:) good luck:)
--Posted by angel_3_16
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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I would write her a letter. Don't criticize her by asking stuff like "What are you doing to yourself???" because if you want her to open up to you, you have to approach her carefully. Say that you miss her as a friend and maybe you should get together and do something. Don't mention the way she's been acting, yet. As you two become friends again, bring it up in one of your late-night chats, or chances are, she'll bring it up to you. Let her know that she can tell you anything.
--Posted by BrainyBabe13
10:31AM EST 03/30/04
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