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	i am so pessimistic i'm afraid to show anyone my poems i'm nervous about public speaking people always call me anorexic i'm scared of guys how can i calm myself? i hate compliments i can't express my feelings... my bf's mom has cancer i'm ashamed of my house. how do i let him down without hurting his feelings? i'm scared to sing in front of people. this one guy makes fun of me. is it weird to want to wait to have sex? my best friend is gay and i think i like her. i don't blend in at my new school. i hate catcalls. what should i do? i want to play different music than the guys in my band. everyone knows what they want to be in the future and i don't. everyone at my school makes racial jokes, and it makes me feel really awkward. what should i do? we are friends with benefits, but i want more. how do i tell him? i've been depressed lately. has anyone ever been to therapy? my boyfriend's best friend is a girl he used to have a crush on.

My world seems to be speeding up. I am going to be 16 and everyone knows what they want to be in the future. I don't. In fact, I have absolutely no idea.

My parents and my teachers are pressing me to make up my mind. My mum and dad are even bringing up colleges.

I don't like thinking of the future; it makes me feel out of control and like my life is moving way too fast for me. I am so confused. Help me...please.






No rush There's plenty of time to figure that out. Besides, half the people who say they know what they want to be, won't want to be that a year from now. So, don't rush and take your time to find what interests you! --Posted by tennischika 05:49PM EST 10/03/07

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