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my bf's black--he won't tell people at school about us

does my tomboy style drive him away?

my boyfriend's ex still likes him

she has a crush on me

how do you get over someone?

we like the same guy

she only talks about her boyfriend

i'm white, but i'm dating a black guy

french kissing is gross...

i'm the other woman...

moody boyfriend...

we start dating, i lose interest...

i'm crushing on my gay friend...

my friend's boyfriend likes me...

i'm in love with two people...

if a guy asks me to dance, how do i say no?

i like him but he's a player...

i think my boyfriend's cheating...

mom thinks my homecoming date is ugly...

we're friends with benefits but i love him

i like my friend's boyfriend.

what should i get my bf for xmas?

my bf got another girl pregnant...

he asked another girl to prom.

my boyfriend isn't cute.

is he flirting or making fun of me?

i really like my best friend

my boyfriend wants to read my diary

my boyfriend never calls me

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

how do you stay friends?

my boyfriend only wants to hang out with his friends...

i am tired of being single...

he really has changed but nobody else sees it...

he says if i loved him i would have sex...

i'm scared he's cheating on me.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me in public.

i don't have the same feelings for him anymore.

should i make a move on my crush?

how do I know if i'm in love?

my friend doesn't know i like her brother.

my boyfriend has a problem with overweight girls.

my boyfriend's family is extremely poor.

my boyfriend is ready to have sex but i'm not.

he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

why are guys only interested in non-opinionated girls?

my boyfriend doesn't trust me.

i'm 16 and engaged.

my best friend and my boyfriend can't stand one another.

i like someone two years younger than me.

my boyfriend is really moody and takes his anger out on me.

i think my boyfriend's best friend is trying to break us up.

how can i stop being unfaithful and stick with one guy?

i'm a christian but my boyfriend doesn't even believe in god.

what are the pros and cons of waiting to have sex?

how do i gain back my boyfriend's trust?

i am in love with my brother's best friend.

i like this guy, but he's four years older than me and lives 600 miles away.

my boyfriend's going to college and i'm worried about our relationship.

i really like this guy but he has a baby.

my boyfriend tells his best friend EVERYTHING about our relationship.

my boyfriend never wants to hang out with just me.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. they spend a lot of time together and i hate it.

i'm dating this guy that everyone says has an STD. how can i be sure that he's clean?

my crush only sees me as a little kid. how can i get him to notice me?

my boyfriend cheated on me and i can't get over it.

i don't have feelings for my boyfriend. should i end the relationship?

i don't believe in premarital sex but the guys i like don't share the same beliefs. what should i do?

my boyfriend gets mad at me when i talk or hang out with my guy friends. what should i do?

my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love...

i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to tell him. should i wait for him to say it first?

my boyfriend is going to his ex-girlfriend's birthday party. i'm afraid they'll make a drunken mistake.

the butterflies i used to get around my boyfriend have gone away. is this a bad sign?

how do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

my boyfriend is moving way too slow. how can i speed things up?


My boyfriend is really moody and often takes his anger out on me. I love him so much, but I put up with loads from him that I really don't deserve. I hate arguing with him and falling out; it takes over my life when we fight.

I don't want to lose him, but how do I deal with our up and down relationship? My friends always tell me to break up with him, but they don't realize that I love him and that we have some incredible times together.

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    Dump Him
    Sorry to be so blunt and heartless but if you don't you could end up in the hospital, on the news, or in an awful relationship that you are afraid to get out of. So my advice, blunt though it may be, is to dump him and if he tries to harm you afterwards. Tell someone quick, as in someone who can do something about it, like an adult. Then tell your best friend.
    --Posted by fourteen01662
    08:56PM EST 04/25/07


    
    I Know What You're Going Through!
    A couple of years ago, I went through the exact same thing. All we did was fight and argue and he would take all his anger out on me. But I loved him, and I thought that I couldn't live without him in my life. But one day I ended up breaking it off. I honestly think you need to get out of this realationship before it gets worse. And I'm sure you'll find someone better who will treat you right and not take his anger out on you.
    --Posted by tashie333
    12:02PM EST 04/25/07


    
    Love Isn't Everything
    I mean, love is nice, but there's no point in sacrificing your happiness just because you're in love. You could probably find love with lots of people.

If you stay with your boyfriend, you're really just going to have to put up with these hissy fits of his. You have to choose.
    --Posted by squishylou
    01:44AM EST 04/25/07


    
    Boyfriend and Problem
    Girl, I think you should just stay with him if he makes you feel good. But when things get out of hand you're going to have to break-up.

If he loved you as much as you love him he wouldn't take his anger out on you.
    --Posted by biankabell
    07:29PM EST 04/24/07


    
    Fix It
    Well, maybe you and your boyfriend should try to talk it out because he may not notice that he is hurting you. How will he know if you don't tell him? I know talking things out isn't always the easiest thing to do but it might help big time.

If not then maybe you two just weren't meant to be. I know you love him but if being with him is bringing you pain it may be time to let go...
    --Posted by dr_princesa_2012
    06:51AM EST 04/24/07



    
    I would do this....
    Maybe you should talk about it to him. When he is angry he may not relize he is taking it out on you. Just tell him and then he may think twice before lashing out at you.
    --Posted by vpj-ox
    09:26AM EST 04/23/07

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