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i get teased because i am fat

i'm the only skater girl...

no one else at school is gay

my friends say i'm an oreo

goth and proud of it

i'm mormon and my friends tease me

does my tomboy style drive him away?

my boyfriend's ex still likes him

she has a crush on me

how do you get over someone?

we like the same guy

she only talks about her boyfriend

how can i calm myself?

i'm white, but i'm dating a black guy

i have no privacy

i can't stand my step-mom

everyone thinks my sister's better than me

my family is really poor

my dad doesn't like my friends

i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

how can i make friends at my new school?

i'm failing math

i like this guy in my class

french kissing is gross...

i am so pessimistic

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i'm nervous about public speaking

people always call me anorexic

i'm scared of guys

my mom thinks i'm insane

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

i'm the other woman...

i hate compliments

moody boyfriend...

my christian cousin is gay...

we start dating, i lose interest...

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i am a perpetual liar...

i'm crushing on my gay friend...

my friend's boyfriend likes me...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

i hate seeing my mom kiss her boyfriend...

my sister is anorexic...

being confident is boring...

i'm in love with two people...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

if a guy asks me to dance, how do i say no?

i like him but he's a player...

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i think my boyfriend's cheating...

mom thinks my homecoming date is ugly...

we're friends with benefits but i love him

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

i like my friend's boyfriend.

i get teased me because i'm jewish...

i look ugly in pictures...

i look horrible in photos.

what should i get my bf for xmas?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

i can't express my feelings...

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my bf's mom has cancer

my bf got another girl pregnant...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

i've got scars on my legs.

i play football

my sister and i like the same guys

my friend's stealing my stuff

my parents fight about money

i'm ashamed of my house.

he asked another girl to prom.

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

i don't relate to christian school.

my mom focuses on mistakes i've made in the past

my mom's been snooping...

my boyfriend isn't cute.

is he flirting or making fun of me?

how do i tell my mom i want to be a vegan?

I lied about dating a younger boy, my mom would think I'm a loser

I am getting my wisdom teeth out and I am really scared.

My friend is competing with me

my dad insults me

my best friend has a new best friend

i really like my best friend

my boyfriend wants to read my diary

my parents don't believe in dating

my friends tease me for being skinny

are you supposed to shave down there?

i'm an atheist but my mom's a lutheran

my boyfriend never calls me

i want to change my rep for the new school year

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

i have to share a room with an eight year old

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

my mom read my diary

i can't dance

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

i'm not allowed to date!

how do you stay friends?

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

i cannot get along with my mom...

my boyfriend only wants to hang out with his friends...

i am tired of being single...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

my mom won't let me wear a thong...

how do i let him down without hurting his feelings?

he really has changed but nobody else sees it...

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

he says if i loved him i would have sex...

i haven't been doing very well in school...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i'm scared he's cheating on me.

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i have a hard time talking to guys.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

i think she's interested in me...

i am in love with my best friend's boyfriend.

they make fun of me because of my race.

my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me in public.

my best friend's mom hates me.

i don't have the same feelings for him anymore.

the boys in school make jokes about my boobs...

should i make a move on my crush?

how do I know if i'm in love?

my friend is very homophobic.

my mom and i are always yelling at each other.

my friend doesn't know i like her brother.

my boyfriend has a problem with overweight girls.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

this one guy makes fun of me.

my boyfriend's family is extremely poor.

i still feel like that fat girl.

my boyfriend is ready to have sex but i'm not.

my eyebrows make me really self-conscious.

i want to be a singer.

my parents are paranoid about me dating.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

they think i'm anorexic, but i'm not.

my mom is a big emotional mess.

he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

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what makes a good best friend?

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my best friend is slowly changing.

is it weird to want to wait to have sex?

i'm embarrassed to buy birth control.

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i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

i just found out my dad is really my step-dad.

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my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

i'm 16 and engaged.

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everyone sees me as a tomboy...

i like someone two years younger than me.

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my dad and grandma are always fighting.

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my boyfriend tells his best friend EVERYTHING about our relationship.

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my friend just told me she has cancer, but she won't talk about it.

i made out with my best friend and now i feel awkward around her.

my boyfriend refuses to meet my parents and now my family dislikes him.

my friend got jumped and i want to get back at the girl who did it.

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my boyfriend has been mean to me ever since his grandfather died.

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i want my girlfriend to tell her parents she's gay.

my boyfriend's mom wants me to go on birth control, but i don't think i want to.

my mom tries to fit in with my friends and it's really annoying.

i found a video of my brother smoking pot and i'm worried about him.

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my boyfriend wants to take a break because i don't believe in god.

my mom won't let me wear make up.

my family keeps pressuring me to find a boyfriend. how can i get them to back off?


I have really bad back acne and I'm afraid to go to prom. I think everyone will just stare at my back and make fun of me. It happened before so I think it will happen again. I really want to go because the prom only happens once. Should I go? What should I do if people start to stare or make fun of me?

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    I Know How You Feel!
    I have the exact problem. I always am afraid to wear a dress or anything that exposes my back. But you only get one prom, and you shouldn't let back acne stop you from going. Use lots of cover up, only let it dry a bit before putting on the dress. Shawls are always great, or you can wear your hair down so that it covers some of it. If your back isn't so bad, then get some over-the-counter medicine, like proactive or neutrogena shower wash. I have used those before, and they work great for quick events coming up, but the acne usally comes back if you stop using it. If your acne is really bad, talk to a dermatologist about an oral prescription or topical gel. These usually works for permenant results without much scaring. Just remember that even though you might be worried now about your back, no one is even gonna care because you are all having a great time. Just be yourself and have fun. :-)
    --Posted by steph1636
    09:53PM EST 03/28/07


    
    Cover Up!
    Some people might not even notice because they'll be having too much fun to worry about your back. That's exactly what you should be doing too, having fun instead of worrying about your back. I know how you feel, I get very insecure about my body sometimes.

I end up thinking worse things about myself than others do. We are both just paranoid and remember we are our own worse critic.

If it's really bothering you try to find a pretty dress that does not show or expose your back (you can still look and feel sexy and beautiful without bearing your back). Or just wear a pretty shawl that matches your dress.
    --Posted by milky91
    05:56PM EST 03/27/07


    
    
    Personally, I don't think it matters, because people will be thinking how beautiful you look. They won't be looking at your back, but if you still think that you shouldn't go, maybe choose a dress that covers it more, or wear a shrug or some other fashionable add-on. Either way, I'm sure you'll look wonderful, HAVE FUN GIRL!
    --Posted by salvepoeta_carol
    02:01PM EST 03/27/07


    
    
    You could always try wearing a dress that doesn't reveal too much of your back. Also, you could try an antibiotic for back acne. I don't know what it's called but I know there is one (my older brother takes it), just ask around. Don't worry, your prom is gonna be GREAT! <3
    --Posted by geekette_at_heart_x3
    11:31AM EST 03/27/07


    
    Nature's Cure Body Acne Treatment Spray
    I know exactly how you feel, that's why I didn't go to my prom. Trust me, if you don't go you'll really wish you had. A couple months ago I started using this stuff called Nature's Cure Body Acne Treatment Spray that you can get at most drug stores for about $8.

It's really easy to use because you just spray it on where you need it, morning and night. It didn't dry out my skin which was amazing because I have super sensitive skin. After about a week of using it you'll really see a change. It might feel like you've got a slight film on your back after it dries, but it really helps soothe the irritation.

If this doesn't work, just try to find a shawl or a fancy little cardigan. Or just forget about anyone who might care about your acne because they're jerks if that's all they can think about! Well, good luck and I hope you end up going to your prom! :)
    --Posted by theraininspain
    10:05AM EST 03/27/07



    
    GO! Don't let ANYTHING stop you!
    Hey I have the same problem! I say don't let it stop you! Use some cover-up foundation, it should do the trick! If people start to make fun of you and stare...umm like who gives a crap! It's their problem if it bothers them. They're just too shallow to see how beautiful you face is!
    --Posted by jitterbug2008
    05:14PM EST 03/26/07


    
    You Only Live Once...
    I say that you go to the prom (you only have one chance in a lifetime) and hangout with your friends. Don't let something like that ruin your big night. Just block those people out of your mind and have one of the best nights of your life. Don't second guess yourself. You are beautiful no matter what anyone says! Ban self doubt, ban fear, and ban nerves...go to the prom and have a GREAT time!
    --Posted by sk8tergurl4lyf
    03:06PM EST 03/26/07


    
    Honestly
    They really won't be paying attention. It will be dark and you can always find a dress that covers your back. As a teenager you always think that your imperfections are under the spotlight but they really aren't. People really don't pay that much attention. I've learned that from experience and so just go.
    --Posted by motherteresa
    01:54PM EST 03/26/07


    
    
    I used to have it, but I talked to my doctor and got a prescription for minocycline. It's an oral antibiotic, and a REALLY common treatment- and for me, the acne cleared up in about 3 or 4 weeks. You take the antibiotics for 6 weeks. If there's a lot of scarring, try using waterproof makeup to cover it(make sure you set it with powder too). Just ask a friend to apply it for you.

However, be sure you wash it all off at the end of the night, and clean your pores with toner. If all of that fails, I really doubt it will, you can seriously minimize the breakouts by using Neutrogena body clear acne wash and clean & clear dual action moisturizer (it clears up the acne but doesnt dry out your skin).

Remember that people aren't gonna waste their prom night thinking 'I wonder what her back looks like?'. Keep in mind that you're gonna look so great, everyone's gonna want to look at your FACE - not your back.
    --Posted by not_a_goddess
    09:26PM EST 03/25/07

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