I feel like I'm losing my best friend. He suddenly has a girlfriend at school. When he was single, we used to be super close and he was so sweet. We used to eat lunch together, do homework together, etc. Now, things have really changed. It seems like he forgot that he once had a best friend. He's always with his girlfriend (and that's reasonable because they're in a relationship) but, somehow I get jealous. How can I let my best friend know that he's leaving me behind?
Talk and fix it.
Just talk to him about it. Ofcourse, he is still going to be paying a lot of attention to his girlfriend, but maybe he'll pay more attention to you if you say something. Maybe you should try to call him more. --Posted by osk_babii_xoxo 09:30PM EST 02/22/06
Friends and girl/boyfriends
I've been there too. I think you should tell him how you feel. Tell him that you think he's leaving you behind and that you feel that you guys aren't hanging out or talking like you used too. That's what I did and things worked out fine. --Posted by triple_x_princess 03:55PM EST 02/22/06
Friends
Now that he has a girlfriend, maybe he has forgotten what it's like to be with you as just a "friend." Maybe you should remind him by trying to do all of the things you used to do together, before he had a girlfriend. Spend some time with him (but don't make it seem like you two are going out). If that doesn't work, then you could lay off for a bit. He will remember you! Don't worry, that's what love sometimes does to people. --Posted by deep-think 02:26PM EST 02/22/06
Just talk!
Just tell him how you feel! Since you guys are best friends, he'll totally understand and try to make you feel less left out. Just remember that he's also somebody's guy now, so that means he also has to make sure his girl is happy, don't give him too much pressure about it. --Posted by amberstarrz 03:32PM EST 02/21/06
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