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Just deal!
If they are good friends they will invite you to do activities with them too. If they don't let you in on things and you feel like the third wheel try finding newer friends that don't make you feel like the third wheel.
--Posted by roxrainbowsox
06:41PM EST 09/28/05
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I think that bomshell08 is right about hanging out with other friends when they are out. I would tell them my feelings as well. They should understand. Maybe they've been there too. Don't be afraid to tell them. If they don't understand then maybe they are not good friends.
--Posted by tinker_b
12:30PM EST 09/28/05
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Not a biggy
It's not a big thing. It happens to heaps of people. You aren't going to lose your friendship over this so don't worry. That happend to me too but it was fine and you just need to live with it. My advice is let them do their own thing and maybe go on double dates or something to make it fun and interesting. Don't panic. You're not going to lose your mates over this one.
--Posted by gawjus_girl
02:17AM EST 09/28/05
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You will all still be friends
IF they are really good friends the will know not to make you uncomfortable. Hopefully they will spend time together but they will also have some together time with YOU. Make sure you give them space also! Spend time with other friends when they have a date or something. This could be an excellent time to venture on your own and become better friends with others. Remember, just because they are dating doesn't mean it has to bring you down.
--Posted by bombshell08
07:43PM EST 09/26/05
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It's nothing big.
You're not going to lose communication with them. There will be times when they will want to be alone, but they're your friends and they won't drop you. (I have been in a situation like that, but I am the best friend going out with the guy best friend.) It can work out for you. If you like a guy and one of them is friends with him, you can double date. (It's what we do.) Tell them how you feel and they won't leave you out if you all are hanging out.
--Posted by kfgrl
09:03PM EST 09/25/05
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Think about it
My friend once thought that she was going to be a third wheel when I dated this guy who we were both good friends with. But her fear was totally irationnal. Nothing changed between us, I still spent more time with her than I did with my bf! My point is that you should wait and see if what you think is happening is actually happening. Besides, relationships come and go but you and your friend are always gonna be together!
--Posted by bikinnigurl
10:49PM EST 09/23/05
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Don't have to be...
Tell your friends how you feel they will understand. They have probeley been there too.
--Posted by kfarmgirl14
10:47AM EST 09/23/05
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It can be kinda fun...
When two of my good friends started going out, I felt exactly like you. But evenutally, I realized how great it can be for EVERYBODY. Say one day you don't want to hang out, your best girl friend is an automatic fill in for you! They WILL be focused on each other a lot, but if you support them throughout the way, there will be no extra wheels.
--Posted by grelop
07:06AM EST 09/23/05
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