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i'm falling for my best friend

my friend dates boys i like

my best friend is bisexual

i'm christian but my friend has no idea who god is

my friend has been drinking and doing lots of drugs

i just moved and i have no life

my friend is homophobic.

i told my friend she's fat

my friends think my boyfriend is ugly

how can i show him that he's being racist?

i am a perpetual liar...

my mom uses me to get closer to my sister...

my friend is a freeloader...

she's conceited and it's driving me nuts...

her singing voice sucks...

my two best friends don't get along

how do i stand up to a "mean girl"?

My friend is the biggest flirt.

my friend is the biggest flirt.

i saw my friend's bf cheating on her...

i don't want to share clothes...

my friend uses her ADD as an excuse

my friend's stealing my stuff

me and my best friend have been drifting apart...

My friend is competing with me

my best friend has a new best friend

my friends tease me for being skinny

my friend thinks i'm the girl of his dreams

both sides want me to choose between them

my two closest friends just started going out with each other

all my friend talks about is her new guy

my friend's mom keeps interfering in our business

my friend makes rude comments about my weight

my friend's a perfectionist

my friends are playing tug-of-war with me!

i want people to stop making fun of me...

she's saying things behind my back...

cheap and thoughtful bday present ideas?

i feel like i'm losing my best friend...

my friend's step-dad just died...

i think she's interested in me...

my best friend's mom hates me.

my friend is very homophobic.

my best friend likes my ex-boyfriend.

my best friend ignores me when she has a boyfriend.

i called my friend 'nasty' for not using a condom.

my best friend is in love with a complete loser.

what makes a good best friend?

my best friend is slowly changing.

my friend is constantly putting me down.

i get upset when i see my crush and my best friend together.

my best friend's mom thinks i'm a TOTAL druggie!

my best friend chose her boyfriend over me.

none of my friends take me seriously.

my best friend slept with my other best friend's boyfriend.

I'm noticing annoying things about my best friend that never used to be annoying before.

i don't think i'll have any friends when i go back to school

i don't trust my best friend's boyfriend.

i told my friend i'm bisexual; now she's acting different around me.

i received an email from an old friend who hasn't spoken to me in years.

i'm starting to like my friend but he's gay. what should i do?

i like this guy, but now my best friend feels like a third wheel.

my friend is extremely clingy. how do i get her to leave me alone?

my best friend went off to college and i feel like she doesn't care about our friendship anymore.

i'm afraid to tell my friends i'm bisexual. what should i do?

my best friend smokes weed every day. i'm worried, but she won't listen.

my best friend wants to read my diary. how do i keep my private writing private?


I think my best friend is stealing from me because lately I have found a lot of my things in her room. I don't want to say anything to spoil our friendship. What should I do?

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    Get new friends
    If your friends are stealing from you, get new friends. You shouldnt be hanging out with people who steal from you. You are who you are because of the people you hang with and the books you read (I didnt make this up).
    --Posted by spoiledkitty_bb
    09:26AM EST 03/09/05


    
    Do you guys really have a friendship?
    Most people would not agree with my advice, but if she is really your friend she wouldn't steal from you. If she was your friend and really needed or wanted what you had she would sipmly ask for it. If your answer was no she would accept it and move on. Obviously she doesn't respect the friendship but if you really think she is your friend and she is worth the trouble, talk to her and get her straight before it goes too far.
    --Posted by kekalek
    01:20PM EST 03/08/05


    
    Give her a chance
    Hey gurl First of all, she may already feel guilty and she may suspect that you are starting to discover this whole thing. It's human nature to feel when someone's uncomfortable with you, so I'm sure she knows you have something on your mind. GIVE HER A CHANCE. Instead of telling her off, go to her room, pick up one of your things and say, "Hey I've been lookin all over for this! Didnt know you borrowed it silly!" and flash her a smile. Then, ask if she wants to use it longer or if you can take it back to your place. If she says it's hers and your definite she's lying, then I guess you either have to give up on that stuff or give up on her friendship. Neither of the choices are wrong. Your pick. Lovezz
    --Posted by anichka14
    04:52PM EST 03/07/05

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