There's this guy that has a girlfriend. But he continually cheats on her with me. I feel bad because his g/f, doesn't know, or at least she pretends not to hear it. He tells me he doesn't want to break up with her, but he wants to do things with me. I know it's really low, but I can't help but fall for it every time. I cry over it every time I realize he uses me, but I can't get away. How do I rid myself of this torture? How can I give him up and get a life?
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Fight temptaions. It sounds like they are heading for the rocks so after they're done, wait a day or two then make your move. --Posted by livie21 05:32PM EST 09/16/05
Listen...
I just put an end to this same deal. I finally told him to quit call'n and talk'n to me 'til he broke up with her...and 2 days later...he did!! But now I've realized what kind of guy he is and I'm waiting until school starts next year to decide if he's gonna do the same thing to me. I think you just need to leave him alone until then! --Posted by beach33 01:18PM EST 05/13/04
Take a step back girl
I'm totally all for having fun....especailly with guys...but if you were in the other girl's shoes, how would you feel? Cheating is NEVER a good idea and this situation is only gonna be bad. Dump the loser and find a new guy who's much more worth your time. --Posted by enchanted861 12:06PM EST 05/13/04
I would not want to be you...
I would not want to be you in this situation. I have been this situation before. It's bad all the way around. You might end up getting hurt, because he will pick her over you. Or she will get hurt because he will you over her. He doesn't deserve any girl that would be worth his time if he plays all girls like this. My advice would be give him and ultimatum. Tell him that it is either her or you. If her picks her then don't waste your time on him. He isn't good enough for you anyway. --Posted by singinangel05 05:48PM EST 05/12/04
Have fun!!!
Well do you love him? Because if you don't really have feelings for him, then I think it's ok to have fun. Also he must not love her because if he did he would not be doing this to her. JUST DO YOUR THING. --Posted by mexicalgal 03:44PM EST 05/12/04
Have ur Fun Girl!!!
Who cares what everyone else thinks? It's your life, so have your fun--what she dont know can't hurt her! --Posted by ashrose22 09:49PM EST 05/11/04
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