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my bf's black--he won't tell people at school about us

does my tomboy style drive him away?

my boyfriend's ex still likes him

she has a crush on me

how do you get over someone?

we like the same guy

she only talks about her boyfriend

i'm white, but i'm dating a black guy

french kissing is gross...

i'm the other woman...

moody boyfriend...

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i'm crushing on my gay friend...

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i'm in love with two people...

if a guy asks me to dance, how do i say no?

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i think my boyfriend's cheating...

mom thinks my homecoming date is ugly...

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i like my friend's boyfriend.

what should i get my bf for xmas?

my bf got another girl pregnant...

he asked another girl to prom.

my boyfriend isn't cute.

is he flirting or making fun of me?

i really like my best friend

my boyfriend wants to read my diary

my boyfriend never calls me

i'm 16 and i've NEVER had a boyfriend

how do you stay friends?

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i am tired of being single...

he really has changed but nobody else sees it...

he says if i loved him i would have sex...

i'm scared he's cheating on me.

i have a hard time talking to guys.

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my boyfriend doesn't want to talk to me in public.

i don't have the same feelings for him anymore.

should i make a move on my crush?

how do I know if i'm in love?

my friend doesn't know i like her brother.

my boyfriend has a problem with overweight girls.

my boyfriend's family is extremely poor.

my boyfriend is ready to have sex but i'm not.

he's been talking to his ex-girlfriend.

why are guys only interested in non-opinionated girls?

my boyfriend doesn't trust me.

i'm 16 and engaged.

my best friend and my boyfriend can't stand one another.

i like someone two years younger than me.

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i think my boyfriend's best friend is trying to break us up.

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what are the pros and cons of waiting to have sex?

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i am in love with my brother's best friend.

i like this guy, but he's four years older than me and lives 600 miles away.

my boyfriend's going to college and i'm worried about our relationship.

i really like this guy but he has a baby.

my boyfriend tells his best friend EVERYTHING about our relationship.

my boyfriend never wants to hang out with just me.

my boyfriend's best friend is a girl. they spend a lot of time together and i hate it.

i'm dating this guy that everyone says has an STD. how can i be sure that he's clean?

my crush only sees me as a little kid. how can i get him to notice me?

my boyfriend cheated on me and i can't get over it.

i don't have feelings for my boyfriend. should i end the relationship?

i don't believe in premarital sex but the guys i like don't share the same beliefs. what should i do?

my boyfriend gets mad at me when i talk or hang out with my guy friends. what should i do?

my boyfriend doesn't do anything special for me. i just want to feel more love...

i love my boyfriend, but i don't know how to tell him. should i wait for him to say it first?

my boyfriend is going to his ex-girlfriend's birthday party. i'm afraid they'll make a drunken mistake.

the butterflies i used to get around my boyfriend have gone away. is this a bad sign?

how do i break up with my boyfriend without hurting him?

my boyfriend is moving way too slow. how can i speed things up?


My friend only talks about her new boyfriend. What do I do?

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     LISTEN!!!! That is it, I just answered your question. You are her friend and that is what you do, you listen. And yeah that may be her main topic for a while but hey that is how some girls are. Be her friend.
    --Posted by SAS03
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Wow I never really noticed that as a problem before and maybe I need to stop doing that cause that's all I do too with my b/f. So if it bothers you maybe you should tell the person that it kinda gets annoying. Otherwise we won't really notice, cause we're too caught up in the thrill of it all. Hope I helped you a bit cause you helped me.
    --Posted by violet_711
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     I have been in almost the same situation you are in, except I am the person who has the boyfriend! My friends and I got and still get into fights about him, but you have to think about how your friend feels. Now that my friends have their b/f's they know how I feel and they talk about them all the time. So try to put yourself in her position and try to talk to her about it!!
    --Posted by babygurl6202000
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Truth. Talk nicely and calmly and make sure she knows that you aren't mad at her too. If you guys have a good friendship then you'll be fine. However you choose to handle it...good luck!!!
    --Posted by mynameisholly
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     We all know the new boyfriend feeling, where we find someone and he seems like everything to us...your best friend is just going through that right now! But if she's being a conversation hog, tell her you're really happy for her and bring up something else. After a while she should move on to the new conversation.
    --Posted by silvercarnation
    10:31AM EST 03/30/04

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