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I don't know why, but it hella bugs me that my boyfriend is all into Britney Spears and all those other stupid chicks (thinking they're hella "hot"). I know that of course it's natural and all. But it makes me feel not good enough (looks-wise) and I really don't know what to think about the situation anymore. Any ideas??

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     I have the same problem! My boyfriend thinks that Jessica Alba ("Dark Angel") is hella hot. Looks wise, I'm totally opposite. She has dark hair and eyes, and I've got blonde hair and green eyes. I know he likes brunettes, so...I dunno. When he talks about Jessica Alba I start talking about some hot singer/actor or I just tell him that it bugs me.
    --Posted by irresistible804
    10:30AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Well gURL, don't trip! Guys are gonna have their opinions about famous girls. As long as you have high self-esteem and confidence in yourself it'll shine in his eyes and that's all that matters, not no PAINTED FAKE girls on TV, ya know?!?
    --Posted by FoxyRoxySweety
    10:30AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     Just remember that even though he may mention Britney, you're the one that he says "I love you" to. And also remember that you don't have a team of cosmetologists beside you at every waking moment.
    --Posted by candygurl_87
    10:30AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     First, you should always remember that your boyfriend or any other guy for that matter is NOT going to have any chance with any of those girls, so in that area, you don't have to worry. And second, if your boyfriend truly loves you, then he will stay with you no matter what you look like. I don't understand what guys see in them anyway. They are just painted, anorexic Barbie dolls, right?
    --Posted by jeffspunk
    10:30AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
     I'd call this a phase. My best friend's boyfriend talked about Jennifer Lopez too much. She felt not good enough too, but later on she just ignored it. And in no time he just stopped talking about her. Believe me, he'll get over her soon. Hope this helps!!!!
    --Posted by AngelBaby300
    10:30AM EST 03/30/04



    
    
    {post { I have the same problem! My boyfriend thinks that Jessica Alba ("Dark Angel") is hella hot. Looks wise, I'm totally opposite. She has dark hair and eyes, and I've got blonde hair and green eyes. I know he likes brunettes, so...I dunno. When he talks about Jessica Alba I start talking about some hot singer/actor or I just tell him that it bugs me.}}
    --Posted by irresistible804
    10:13AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
    {post { Well gURL, don't trip! Guys are gonna have their opinions about famous girls. As long as you have high self-esteem and confidence in yourself it'll shine in his eyes and that's all that matters, not no PAINTED FAKE girls on TV, ya know?!? }}
    --Posted by FoxyRoxySweety
    10:13AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
    {post { Just remember that even though he may mention Britney, you're the one that he says "I love you" to. And also remember that you don't have a team of cosmetologists beside you at every waking moment.}}
    --Posted by candygurl_87
    10:13AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
    {post { First, you should always remember that your boyfriend or any other guy for that matter is NOT going to have any chance with any of those girls, so in that area, you don't have to worry. And second, if your boyfriend truly loves you, then he will stay with you no matter what you look like. I don't understand what guys see in them anyway. They are just painted, anorexic Barbie dolls, right? }}
    --Posted by jeffspunk
    10:13AM EST 03/30/04


    
    
    {post { I'd call this a phase. My best friend's boyfriend talked about Jennifer Lopez too much. She felt not good enough too, but later on she just ignored it. And in no time he just stopped talking about her. Believe me, he'll get over her soon. Hope this helps!!!! }}
    --Posted by AngelBaby300
    10:13AM EST 03/30/04

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