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secret admirers

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
30
Digs


i lub it
i would like to know ii have dat ii hav one so dig it
--Posted by freakizhere




fun
as long as i find out who it is eventually.
--Posted by faded_diamonds



its cute
its cute and romantic and it makes you feel loved
--Posted by xojanbabyox95




cute
I think it's pretty cute! As long as it becomes out in the open eventually.
--Posted by greenspectacle





i dig them, it is really cool and gives you a confidence boost but sometimes disappointing when you find out it's not the guy you wanted it to be
--Posted by safe_from_the_pain





cute <3
it makes you feel special 2 have a secret admirer. & it's fun 2 figure out who it is :)
--Posted by babykat1413613




I don't know. Yeah, it's cute. I just don't want the person to get super obsessive. It's cool because it, like, gives you a reassuring feeling inside? Makes you feel good. :D
--Posted by xundefined



It's cute ;&#93;
I think it's adorable. Secret love notes, crushes, and butterflies in your stomach - it's all so sweet. I'd love to have a secret admirer.
--Posted by pumpkiinpiie213




i think its flatterin ta kno dat someone likes u
--Posted by shema2012




its cute, to know that theres someone out there that likes you but doesnt want to confess their dying gratitude to you just yet, like the other grl said, its romantic and its never boring
--Posted by eugena





its cute, to know that theres someone out there that likes you but doesnt want to confess their dying gratitude to you just yet, like the other grl said, its romantic and its never boring
--Posted by eugena




its their choice
we cant stop them
--Posted by dominican.mami




Its nice to know that someone likes you enough to the point they don't even wanna tell you because their afraid of rejection
--Posted by christeezy




i thnk its rlly kute as long as they later come out to you who they are if they don't its a waste of time and good emotion/curiosity (Y)
--Posted by crbabie




i thnk its rlly kute as long as they later come out to you who they are if they don't its a waste of time and good emotion/curiosity (Y)
--Posted by crbabie



24
Disses


Kinda Creepy...
Its coolio to think there's someone out there who likes you but you tend to romanticize the idea if you dont know who it is. You'll put it to faces and start trying to work it out and 9/10 times you'll be disappointed when you find out. Besides, some secret admirers can get obsessive. Ever seen Prom Night? Now imagine that you didnt know what the guy who was after you looked like! O_o You feelin the fear? I am. To sum up - Cute a first but can get creepy if it carries on for over a coupla months...
--Posted by angel-bridie



That's lame.
Come on, if you like someone, tell them. If they like you back, yay! If they don't, it's not the biggest deal ever. I don't find secret admirers to be sweet or cute or poetic. I find them to be annoying and, at times, creepy. I would NOT be happy to learn that I had one.
--Posted by goofy_goober




Well everyone has crushes on people who they don't tell, but when you make it clear to someone that SOMEONE likes them but they don't know who.. Yeah that would creep me out too.
--Posted by darkchaz



Just TELL ME!
if someone likes me, i wanna know! especially since im in high school, its kinda lame, childish, and annoying that a guy would keep his crush a secret!
--Posted by angeleyez_14




If someone liked me I'd want them to just tell me. It'd be better for both of us.
--Posted by salems9





If someone liked me I'd want them to just tell me. It'd be better for both of us.
--Posted by salems9




If someone liked me I'd want them to just tell me. It'd be better for both of us.
--Posted by salems9



Nuh Uh...
I don't like surprises :-P Especially if it's a crush...
--Posted by camilia792




Hell no
It's nice to know that some one has a crush on u but i would rather them yell me upfront instead of havin a secret crush on me!
--Posted by spoildbratt97



no
it makes u feel like u have a stalker
--Posted by metrolover





disappointment
this boy in my class slipped "secret" admirer notes into my locker, and i knew it was him doing it. i was flattered but i knew that i didn't like him like he liked me, so when i had to let him down our friendship was just never the same. my point is, secret admirers are bound to disappoint at LEAST one person, if not both.
--Posted by drama.betch




just tell 'em you like 'em
i don't like secret admires because it's like playing the guessing game and in the end someone will lose.just be up front with a person say"hey,i like you and i like to go out with you to the movies or something"easy and no fearing it's a stalker lol...
--Posted by maestro_de_horrar



how old are we?
it was cute when we were younger. now if you find a little note or something thts cute but i would want to know who it is. we are old enough now to just tell them how you geel
--Posted by nickname_me



nop no way
i can admit tht the hole idea is very romantic but at the same time it can be very scary and weird... because who knows maybe you could be disapointed also i think tht guys should step up and say it face to face!!! i wouldn't like a boy tht can't tell me in my face he has a crush on me...
--Posted by shorty-love




eh
i dont rly like them cause about 2 or 3 yrs ago me and my friend were in a fight. the day we got back to being friends again she said someone write a love note to me. it said meet u at the valentines day dance love ur secret admirer. i got all excited and all. but then the night of the dance i find out my so called "friend" that i was fighting with before wrote the note and i was crushed. so i dont rly trust them anymore
--Posted by xxlizzibahxx



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