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just a game...
i think it great when your just flirting, but if a guy honestly likes you, it time to get serious. the guy will loose interest and move on if you keep it up too long. that's all.
--Posted by cinnamindy
Dig.Guys don't like easy girls(at least the ones i know)when they have to work hard to get you they appreciate it more when they do!!:). But you have to know when to give in or else the guy can get fed up or be discouraged.
--Posted by triniqueen
cool
A lot of guys i know like the chase but you've got to know when to slow down and let him catch you. He appreciates you so much more if you put up a SMALL fight. But let him win.
--Posted by allmyluviz4u
yeahhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
it is great.boyz luv 2 know what is going on!!!!!!!!!
--Posted by angel_deja_101
love it!
guys love the chase anyway, and it's better than being easy :P if he's really interested in you, and not in getting into your pants, he'll keep chase:P
--Posted by pretty_in_neon
i agree
with basically everything every girl that "digs it" mentioned.
well said ladies
--Posted by disarrangedbrain
gotta work ittt
playing hard to get is a very delicate thing. You can't act TOO disinterested or else he'll think you are actually not interested. I think girls need to learn how to properly work it. For instance, if you and the guy you like are in a group setting, don't TOTALLY ignore him, but flirt alittle with another guy in front of him, tease him a bit, but dont act too interested. Do you see what I'm saying? You can't like, ZERO IN ON HIM and dont talk to anyone else, that'll freak him outtt. so basically the main thing of playing hard to get is: let him come to youu.
--Posted by blondexcherries
Flirting is love
i dont see whats so wrong with it...come on girls we've all played hard to get once in our lives!
--Posted by iloveyou91
Cool
Its good to play hard to get, because believe it or not it actually makes the guy want u more and work harder to pursue you. Old things still do work in the new world. But you have to keep it running hot and cold, otherwise he might get bored of you. Give a little, then take a little back. Keep him guessing.
--Posted by sweetlies44
Ohh yeah
You want to know if that guy is really interested enough to stay around you know....
You don't want him to think that you're just going to let him in that easy or they might not like that...LOLZ
--Posted by chita_304
much easier
It always easier to get closer to someone if you've been circling each other for awhile. plus it's rather fun. but some guys are too special and it's just better to leave the games behind.
--Posted by born2bewilde
Sa'll good....
Playing hard to get is fun. But, like a lot have already said, you have to know when to quit. I'm playing hard to get currently. =3 By the end of next week, I'll most likely be done. But don't lead them on if you think you aren't all too interested. Figure it out...do you really like him/her...or are you just enjoying the game?
--Posted by zee_lex
games games games....
it is perfectly find to flirt and lead them on but remember to pull back when it's time for there fight. that always makes the boys fell like there's a job to be done. let him think he won be your the one that got what you wanted.
--Posted by uniquebabie
games games games....
it is perfectly find to flirt and lead them on but remember to pull back when it's time for there fight. that always makes the boys feel like there's a job to be done. let him think he won be your the one that got what you wanted.
--Posted by uniquebabie
games games games....
it is perfectly find to flirt and lead them on but remember to pull back when it's time for there fight. that always makes the boys feel like there's a job to be done. let him think he won be your the one that got what you wanted.
--Posted by uniquebabie
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Hmmm....
If you ask me, it's just a waste of time. I don't do it because it's totally over rated. Alotta ppl lose the person they like because of this little game...
--Posted by creativegirl
nah...
I don't really believe in it. If you're interested in someone, show it. If not, don't.
--Posted by gurlstaff_karell
I don't believe in this game. It just makes things more complicated. If you like a guy, go for it! But, of courese, there should be a little mistery.
--Posted by nola787
pointless
i think if you like someone, you're chances are better with just showing it. i don't think you should mess with people like that. but to each her own i suppose.
--Posted by txcowgirl2008
It's for the old
Playing hard to get may be fun at times, but what if you do like a guy and want to know if he feels the same. Some guys just play hard to get for attention and not for the relationship scene. It's a Dis.
--Posted by joannearcalas
DEPENDS.
IF YOU LIKE THE PERSON AND THEY LIKE YOU TOO. U SHOULDNT DO IT BECAUSE THEN IF YOU KEEP IT UP THEY ARE GOING TO MOVE ON TO THE NEXT.THEN YOU JUS MISSED OUT ON SOMETHING GOOD PROBABLY. THEN IF YOU DONT LIKE IT YOU CAN PLAY HEARD TO GET. BECAUSE IT COULD BE FUN. AND YOU CAN FIND OUT WHAT THEY WOULD DO TO GET YOUR ATTENTION.
--Posted by kiikiisw33tz
it doesn't work. if he doesn't think you like him he'll just find someone who does. as opposed to flirting relentlessly trying to get you to take him. heres an idea-why dont you SHOW him you like him and maybe he'll actually think its worth the effort.
--Posted by surprise-me
It's stupid
Unless the guy likes it I wouldnt.
I like to be myself for a guy and if they dont like that its there fault. There missing out :)
--Posted by purple_hippo
i think
to some extent it's alright. but sooner or later, you have to face the fact he might like you.
--Posted by mandeyy
move or lose
I think if you play hard to get he could get confused and think you dont like him and you'll lose him to another girl
--Posted by pixiestars
Love should be simple, straightforward, and honest- not a game.
--Posted by bringinsexybackk
guys will give up, it's frusterating for them.
if a girl keeps playing games, the guy will give up because they have to work so hard, just to go out with you. Whats the point? You put yourself at risk for losing a guy you like, and he doesn't like the games.
If you like the man, tell him, or drop hints. If don't, be straightforward about it.
P.S. flirting and playing games are 2 way different things.
--Posted by mauigirl23
well it depends...
sum guys lik "the chase" of gettin a gurl, u kno. but @ tha same tyme playing hard to get is nothing more than a game and sum guys dnt lik games
--Posted by tha_otha_sid3_of_m3
dis it
i think playing hard to get is soooo dumb...eventually the boy/girl u like is goin to stop chasing you so your only hurting yourself in the end
--Posted by tinka1
whats the point?
if you like someone, tell them. Don't play games with them or they will play games with you.
--Posted by legendxlove
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