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making the first move

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Digs


Takes a lot of confidence
I'm way too shy... the whole rejection side of things is very off putting... However, lots of good relationships are left undiscovered because of this. So for anyone who has the confidence to make the first move... Go you! ^_^
--Posted by angel-bridie



who cares?
i've made the first move with every relationship i've had. i don't see the big deal.
--Posted by subucni



why not
if you always expect that a boy should make the first move its kinda sexist in a way
--Posted by xojanbabyox95



why not
if you always expect that a boy should make the first move its kinda sexist in a way
--Posted by xojanbabyox95



why not
if you always expect that a boy should make the first move its kinda sexist in a way
--Posted by xojanbabyox95




why not
if you always expect that a boy should make the first move its kinda sexist in a way
--Posted by xojanbabyox95



why not
if you always expect that a boy should make the first move its kinda sexist in a way
--Posted by xojanbabyox95



Sure
It takes guts, but it takes guts for guys to make the first move, too. If you like someone, go for it.
--Posted by actressgurl4eva




Sure.
If you look someone, I don't see the harm in making the first move. The other person may be too shy, and it's not fair to always count on them. You are just as capable of expressing your feelings for them. :)
--Posted by xhearthemusicx91




why not
if you want the guy and the guy is shy cuz some guys are why not go for what you want?
--Posted by caramel_kaykay




Why Not?
I mean if he isn't going to tell you....you might as well ask! Don't put all the pressure on them cause that may push them farther away! If you like someone and you don't know how they feel....ask them...you will feel better knowing what the signs really are!
--Posted by dani_armfield90210




Go for it
I say go for it, i did and now im happy. Dont always think the boy is going to do it, they may be shy or they mite not because they dont think u mite be ready, there are many reasons, but i think people should just go for it.
--Posted by eidursgal




sure!
I'm kinda shy so I don't usually, but I think it's a good idea ^^.
--Posted by greenspectacle




if you can ... wish i could
i would love to make the first move oo boy would i because then i would know if he did like me or not and its been bugging me for a while now... anyways if you have the guts thats awesome hopefully soon ill get the courage to do so and not be afraid of rejection. =]
--Posted by mszcassiex



Its nerve wracking but worth it!
It takes alot of courage to make the first move, especially if your shy, but it definetly pays off in the end! So your afraid of rejection, everyone is. Its better to know if the person you like, likes you back that way you can date them and see if they are compatible with you.If they dont like you back then at least you'll know instead of always wondering.
--Posted by baybeegurly736



34
Disses


i prefer not to but if i hads to i would
--Posted by maryanne20060




No way!
Ive never made the first move and i doubt that i ever will! Rejection is a big fear for me so id rather let a guy come to me!! but hey thats just me!!!
--Posted by ms-glamourosity




Hate it
I've made the first move alot, and gotten rejected alot. So now if a guy wants to be with me or do something with me he has to have the balls(haha...you get it...cause guys have balls) to talk to me first.
--Posted by violet_blue1




not a good idea
i don't think it's such a good idea to make the 1st move unless you REALLY LIKE that guy and KNOW him... i've made the 1st move many times and have gotten rejected because i didn't know the guy. then, i've found out that they did like me, jerks.guys can be wierd, but if your up 4 gettin ur heart broken, go for it!
--Posted by xxshantyxx



NOPE NOT ME!!
no that looks thirsty too eager
--Posted by mrs.varner





not 4 mii :(
Making the first move is hard. I'm very shy, and I like it when guys come 2 me. I've heard really good relationships because of this. If you have the confidence, I say go 4 it! :D
--Posted by babykat1413613



What happend to tradition?
Guys were always supposed to make the first move, and I think that's how it should be. Unless I absolutely KNOW that the guy has feelings for me too, I'm waiting on him.
--Posted by iwantshiainmypants



guys should
I think it's more like a gentleman for the man to make the first move
--Posted by missmegan2011yo



guys should
I think it's more like a gentleman for the man to make the first move
--Posted by missmegan2011yo




in my opinion i believe that the guy should always make the first move!
--Posted by krazysha





nuh uh!
For me its a no way im wayy to shy to make the first move, but its not for me. I mean hey good for u guys that have the guts to do it. :)
--Posted by a_unique_person



not again
ive made the first move and cause i thought he was a good guy...turns out he was a jerk and we didnt even last a month...if a guy really likes you and thinks your worth his time he would approach you.
--Posted by sophresh




not me (-_-)
i'm way to shy!!!NOOOO WAY!!!!! also i think tht if the guy really likes you he'll let you know b/c he wouldn't like to loose you to another guys arms. But i have to say tht some don't have the balls or the job hahaha because guys can be shy too so what i have to say is tht if you like him and u are confident them go for it... no one knows wht can happen unless you try they say you can fell like a fool for a sec or fell like a fool 4ever ^_^ but i prefer to wait for the guy tht would b too scare to loose me tht they would fight 4 me and not only tell me but prove me they got sincere feelings for me :)
--Posted by shorty-love




No Effing Way!!!
Nooo, I am wayyy too shy to make the first move!!!
--Posted by cormany10




Don't like doing it...
I'd prefer it if the guy made the first move...
--Posted by coltsfan123



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