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Well, I guess I'm just lucky and have only tried this once, but my current boyfriend is a rebound kind of thing... but our 10 month anniversary is just a few days away... And to top it off, I didn't really even know him when we started dating. But, like I said, I guess I just got lucky?
--Posted by rtc1218
they're not good for the long term, but i don't think they're bad in general. they help you get over your ex, while making sure that you have some fun...
--Posted by gurlstaff_karell
well
i guess it gives you a chance to get over your past relationship like the dude/chick could help you ease through the pain and it may jus be magical, but just be careful it could turn out horrible especially when it comes to emotions
--Posted by youngbabexg
listen...
listen...rebounders help u know if ur ready to move on from ur previous relationship. my rebound relationships go on for about 2 weeks or so and then u decide. but mainly wat usually hapends is that u think ur ready for another guy but u soon relize ur not there for the rebound relationship was born. i am best friends with my rebounder and it really sucs cuz i dont hav the heart to dump him even though he hasnt cald n 4-5 days! grrr. but any ways just be careful who ur rebounders r and theres nothin wrong with it its actually part of a quest to find wat u really want.yes ull end up breakin a few hearts but theyll get over it eventually. and i bet the people who dis it hav had rebound relationships they just dont know it. Peace.
--Posted by boycrazydee
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The relationship I'm in now was a rebound relationship for both of us. My boyfriend at the time wasn't paying me much attention and there were problems, and his girlfriend had just cheated on him. So we got together to make each other feel better, and we're still together 17 months later.
--Posted by hislilarmybrat
yeah kindof
At first it was a rebound relationship you know to try to get over my x-boyfriend but i just started to really feel him and now we have been dating for over a year so yes i dig rebound relationships
--Posted by netta_sweetthang
yeah kindof
At first it was a rebound relationship you know to try to get over my x-boyfriend but i just started to really feel him and now we have been dating for over a year so yes i dig rebound relationships
--Posted by netta_sweetthang
all part of da game
if u wit a boy n u really dont like dem...& u feel like ur relationship isnt goin n-ewhere...u gone need a bacc up..so when u n ya boyfriend break up ....u got sumbody else 2 b wit..its not a rebound..its sum1 u can fall bacc on..ur BACK-UP!!
--Posted by peachaz_14
Hear me out.
I think rebound relationships are stupid. yes i do. the reason i put this comment on the DIG side is because most of the time, you dont know its a rebound till later. when my boyfriend broke up with me, and another guy asked me out a week later, i said sure, but it only lasted a week, and NOW the guy who was my rebound is like my best friend. i think the occational rebound brings support, but you have to be careful with it. and make sure that the reason you want a boyfriend isnt just for the sake of having one. make sure you actually have genuine feelings for the person.
--Posted by lllkatlll
they're the best kind.
haha.
cause the whole point is to hook up as much as possible with a hot stranger and make your ex jealous.
how can you possibly hate that?
--Posted by jesusxisxaxpornxstar
I dig it
because I really don't know.
--Posted by meloveyoulongtime
Not so sure
I guess I'm in a rebound relationship right now but I'm the rebound girl. I've never been in a serious relationship before to begin with so I guess its kind of a good thing for both of us. We don't want to get too close for different reasons and thats fine with both of us right now. Sometimes we feel more like best friends but I think as we both sort out our own stuff it'll work out.
--Posted by spacingout321
good for u
i think sometimes a rebound relationship could actually help u through a rough time..and then something good could come out of it..but u do have to be careful in that kind of situation..no matter wat..feelings and signals can and tend to get mixed up if u don't kno wat ur doin.
--Posted by sweets24
i like it cuz i get attached easily and i feel like i always need a guy to be there so when i was with my last bf..we were on rough sh*t but luckily i was talkin to another guy at the time n later i got over him.
--Posted by thrillofhope
i'm not SO sure but i think so.
i mean - not if you want to like get revenge on someone you used to date by dating someone different - but i think to get over someone, it might be the best way.
--Posted by x_dismantled
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How can you tell?...
I against rebound relationships, but how can you tell if it realy a rebound?... and how long do you have to wait before it is classified as a non-rebound relationship?...
--Posted by queen-o-dance
How can you tell?...
I against rebound relationships, but how can you tell if it realy a rebound?... and how long do you have to wait before it is classified as a non-rebound relationship?...
--Posted by queen-o-dance
No Ssence
Y would u want to make somebody ur rebound thats messed up and u prolly wont be putting ur all into the relationship.
--Posted by manii
it just ends up with more hurt
not a good idea really... yeah they make u feel better for a while but then u have to end up hurting the other person... not good!
--Posted by teenagemoron
Just a bit evil sometimes
Sometimes people actually stay with their "rebound partners" which shows that the two of them like each other a lot, but then a lot of people just use "rebound partners" until they're bored. That's just plain evil in my opinion.
--Posted by flitz
technically, I'm against it.............
I'm all for rebounds, but not rebound RELATIONSHIPS. If a girl wants to just have a quick fling after a break-up, then that's okay, but getting into a deep relationship can cause someone's heart to get broken.
--Posted by cutiediva101
no thanx
rebound relationships will probably just end up with u or the "reboundee" getting their heart broken. most likely the reboundee, cuz after a breakup, it takes a while for sumone to forget the relationship, and they need to recover before entering another relationship.
--Posted by tcmr
Pathetic.
Look, Having rebound relationships may seem like a great way for revenge of an ex, or just some fun for awhile. But, That's just the basics of rebound relationships.
The other person you hook up with may be in love with you. And, Whenever you get done having your fun, You just plan to let them go through what you were going through?!
You may even end up falling for this rebound guy, and he may be some bum. So in the end you screwed yourself.
Yes, It may seem like the pain is going away when you're getting involved in a rebound relationship, But it's all in your head. You're just busy telling yourself it's all right, And letting this other someone pleasure you, So your mind insnt on your ex.
But, that's why you have friends. Count on them. Not some rebound junkie who you found that could help replace your ex.
-PantherSpirit06
--Posted by pantherspirit06
REALLY!!!
I think rebound relationships sre bad most times becuz its just a way to say to ur ex ha ha ha i am over u wen u r really not. Its also another way to TRY and convince urself u r over ur ex which in my opinion iz bad u shuld do it gradually cuz u can just hurt ur rebound guy/gurl.
--Posted by dmgurl4life13
no way
your most likly to dump him again.
--Posted by shygirlnomore
no way
your most likly to dump him again.
--Posted by shygirlnomore
NO
i tried having a rebound relationship with one guy and all i could ever think about was the guy i love (my ex) so i would never want to see my boyfriend at the time... he would want to hug me and hold me and walk me to class and i would hide from him and cry cuz i didnt want him i wanted my ex... so finally i broke up with him and it turned out that he really liked me and always had so i kinda hurt him.... they are not that great
--Posted by i3abydoll3
NO
i tried having a rebound relationship with one guy and all i could ever think about was the guy i love (my ex) so i would never want to see my boyfriend at the time... he would want to hug me and hold me and walk me to class and i would hide from him and cry cuz i didnt want him i wanted my ex... so finally i broke up with him and it turned out that he really liked me and always had so i kinda hurt him.... they are not that great
--Posted by i3abydoll3
NO
i tried having a rebound relationship with one guy and all i could ever think about was the guy i love (my ex) so i would never want to see my boyfriend at the time... he would want to hug me and hold me and walk me to class and i would hide from him and cry cuz i didnt want him i wanted my ex... so finally i broke up with him and it turned out that he really liked me and always had so i kinda hurt him.... they are not that great
--Posted by i3abydoll3
stupid.
its like you're not over your last relationship and its more of "oh, this'll make him jealous" its stupid and inneffective. your ex is gonna think that you're over him so it kills your chances of getting back together.
--Posted by whit712
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