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serial dating

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
23
Digs

Whats that?
Whats that? if its if you go out with some one for a long time i dig it!
--Posted by x0xunacceptable





its good for a while so u can get to kno differrent ppl and might find ure soul mate... sike!! lol
--Posted by tray92



dig
Maybe not in later life, but in highschool when very little is serious, I dont think there's anything wrong with it. Highschool (to me) is all about testing out the waters anyway, getting comfortable with dating so when a serious opportunity does come along, you're prepared. Girls who serial date aren't whores or sluts necessarily, some (like me) just get bored easily. I'm not saying I'm perfect, but I often think that all the negative things other people say towards serial dating girls is based in jealousy - just because I can get the guy doesn't mean I'm a bad person. The only drawback I can see about serial dating is that sometimes the other person is really hurt . . . but mostly it doesn't get that serious in only a few weeks. All in all, I think serial dating is fine.
--Posted by giveupthegrudge




This is where you date several ppl instead of steady dating, rigbt? K, I think it's a great way to meet ppl and get to know what you like in ppl! That's all :)
--Posted by chelleferd17




Hey what can I say?
I'm only 14 yrs. old going on 15 and i dont think that it is anything wrong with that. I try to have fun in my teen life before i become an adult and i dont let anyone stop me from doing that. I have plenty of time for serious relationships, so with serial dating I can learn more. You don't have to be slut to do it either... Unless you are really in love, it is a fun experience.
--Posted by datphillydyme





TEST THE WATERS
Dating, It's simply trial and error! You don't just go on one date do you NO! So if you don't go on just one date why go with just on guy? -Deanna
--Posted by rebelious92



For younger people, not older
I've done it before, when I ws younger. Though I'm 19 now, almost 20, it's becoming less, and less appealing. I've been with my boyfriend for 14 months, and it's nice having one person to go to. I can always remember his name. My ex I was with for 5 years on and off, and in between those times I was with a different guy. It was a bit tiring because I never gave myself a lot of time. It's ok in high school, but when you get older it's time to committ to trying to actually being with someone. But I wouldn't try shooting for a year right off. If you can only do it for like 3 months, when you were only doing a month before, then that's great. But I think serial dating at like 30 means you have problems. (I know people like that.)
--Posted by hislilarmybrat



In middle/high school its ok
I agree with giveupthegrudge somewhat. In middle or highschool you're just testing out new things and seeing what's good for you. It's a good way to find out more about yourself, who you like, what qualities you like in people, what to do, what not to do, etc.
--Posted by cody-and-starla



none
serial dating could be a good thing, could mean heartbreak do you get too far into it, or not in enough?
--Posted by pebblesforever




actually undecided
i got hurt in a serial dating relationship. we broke up Friday and he couldn't seem happier. i was hurt like hell. i really did love him, but now i'm left in the dust. i don't advise it unless he's truely in for it. you will get hurt. guys are crazy sometimes. they don't always know what they want, especially in high school. then, they're all about booty calls. that's what they really want. someone they can get sex from, and i don't do the whole pre-marital sex thing, so, they're gonna have to deal without getting any from me unless i'm married to him, and i will only marry for love, not just so i can sleep with someone. that's just my opinion. the opinion of one person.
--Posted by pebblesforever




i dont know...
well im just staring high school, so things are a ton less serious. but, i do like real relatonships a lot though.
--Posted by him_darling333



Might as well
Life is short, finding your high school sweetheart is more of a dream than reality right now.
--Posted by shydimples_08



if u want
if both of you agree on it what the hell why not?
--Posted by christini




WHATS THE USE??
what is the use of staying with someone in high school for long times? its not like your going to marry the person, so this way its just going to stop you form getting to attached and then end up getting hurt.. you should just test the waters and see what you like. realisticaly how many people end up marrying after meeting at 15.. umm NONE!!
--Posted by luv_me_luv_me_not




Love it
I'm young! Why settle down with the first guy who comes my way? This is a great way to see what else is out there w/o totally letting go of ppl! If u guys are meant to be then it will all work out in the end! But doing this w/o the other person's ok is just WRONG! Not to mention SLUTTY!
--Posted by cheerchic3320



23
Disses

Not For Me
Some girls get restless and want to meet as many guys as they can. But I am not one of those girls. I'm more of a long-term relationship kind of girl. I guess I'm more in the comfort and stability that an actual relationship can bring. I often find that "serial" daters can end up being with everyone. But by doing so, they're really being with no one. -Abby
--Posted by abbyiscool



i prefer to be in relationships
dating, especially dating a bunch of different guys all at once, can be really tough. once i find a guy, i generally stick with him.
--Posted by gurlstaff_karell



ha!
sounds like serial killer! lol. well if im involved its not good cuz i get emotionally attached easily lol
--Posted by teenagemoron



long term
i would rather be with someone for a long time and not with a whole bunch of people in a short period of time. plus how are u gonna tell if u really like someone if u only date them for like 2 days.
--Posted by alannah2369



DIS
cheating is cheating. if you can't handle the task of staying with one person, you shouldn't be dating. what do you think marriage is going to be like?
--Posted by samsungmodel97




Dis it
I don't think you can call serial dateing actually "dateing" if like for little girls who get bored to fast.They swich like they change pants and its horrible.Poor B/f or g/f they dumped for another teenage dirtbag
--Posted by x-heartbeat-x



Not for me
Eventually you get aggravated by all the dissapointments dating alot of guys can bring, so you wanna find the right one for you. Dating is fun while you're young but once you get older you must realize what you really want in a guy and look for HIM!!
--Posted by secondgurl



Not for Me
Dating is fun while you're young but eventually you get tired of all tha aggravation dating many guys can bring. As you get older you realize what you really want in a guy and should take the time to finally look for HIM!!
--Posted by secondgurl



Not for me
Eventually you get aggravated by all the dissapointments dating alot of guys can bring, so you wanna find the right one for you. Dating is fun while you're young but once you get older you must realize what you really want in a guy and look for HIM!!
--Posted by secondgurl



YAY YAY
id rather date around like i use to instead of being with one guy like i am now.
--Posted by marijuanagirl





u can flirt and do what u want
--Posted by marijuanagirl




no way!
Isn't that called cheating? That's why most ppl break up! It's stupid to date more than one person @ once. Wouldn't u rather be close with one very special person?
--Posted by karmababe123




I'm just not into it
I don't want to get into it with a guy if thats all he's in to. But I guess it also depends on how you want to date. Like, if your a guy who's into serial dating, then date someone who serial dates too. Don't date a girl who's looking for a relationship. It's not worth breaking her heart.
--Posted by mickeykay2010



its alrite but not 4 me
i dont mind of other ppl do it, i could rele care less, but i wouldnt do it
--Posted by musicluver_icesk8er




It's not 4 me
Me and my sweety have been togther 4 almost two years now from 6th grade to 8th. I dont see anyhting wrong with it. I mean if you like him and he likes you why not stay togther.
--Posted by sarahjo92



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