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If they're like promise rings, and all that stuff then there's nothing wrong with them,especially if your educated, so I think that everyone should wait, you'll probably not be ready when you are a teen unless your like that so I think they're a good idea if your educated, and if they're just like promise rings.....
--Posted by shadow457
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If they're like promise rings, and all that stuff then there's nothing wrong with them,especially if your educated, so I think that everyone should wait, you'll probably not be ready when you are a teen unless your like that so I think they're a good idea if your educated, and if they're just like promise rings.....
--Posted by shadow457
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I think that promising you'll stay a virgin until you get married is an awesome thing. I know that lots of people say that if they make a promise, then they'll want it even more, but I have a promise ring, and it helps me to remember what I believe and that I want to stay pure untill I'm married. To stay a virgin, or to lose your virginity is a personal choice, and I think that it is stupid when adults try to force teens to take these vows. It's their choice. But if you think about it virginity until marriage is the most risk free way to live your life. When God commanded us to stay virgins untill marriage he didn't just decide to make a rule to fill up the Bible. He knows it's the best way to stay healthy(no stds), and if you get pregnant when you're married, the baby will have a home with a mom and a dad.
--Posted by blondiegrl84
Can ya dig it?
I think virginity pledges are something different,but a good way to abstain from sexual desires of todays world.Too Too many girls and guys are getting out and having sex,just to say that they are no longer a virgin,and they think its so cool.I forgot that its cool until you get a sexually transmitted disease or you get pregnant,and have no way of providing for the baby,so you go out and get an abortion.Go virginity pledges go!!!
--Posted by volsgurl
Virgintiy pledges are good for the world
I think that taking a virginity pledge will stregnten your chances of staying a virgin until marriage. It's really disgusting how people don't even respect there bodies. I mean just because the world says it's ok to have sex dosen't always mean it's ok to do it. I mean how many guys are you going to sleep with before you get married, 30? you know it adds up every year. And i think that making a virginity pledge and keeping it's promise really helps for this world to become a much healthier world and a good example for the little ones.
--Posted by iliciabrodie
Yea!
i thynk that's the right thing to do. Both girls and boys are rushing to have sex and this is a way to keep them from having sex... and a lot of people say that their stupid because the first time hurts but i don't think so because the person that you marry should understand that that would be ur first time so they'll know to do it slow... it's all in the trust and you cant trust any person!!
--Posted by chickondalow
Eh....
I'm kind of against going out and pledging to be a virgin. But I am for waiting for sex until marriage. I think that virginity is something special. You give it away, you can't take it back. It's like giving away a special part of you to someone, and if you're giving it away, you should at least give it to someone who you really, really love. Get married first! You can enjoy it all you want laytah....
--Posted by solisa
I dig it because I'm a strong believer in remaining a virgin until marriage-for everyone, that is. Unfortunately, people do break them but at least usually they feel guilty which is good because it's both a sin and a breaking of a commitment to themselves.
--Posted by cheercharity
I have like 8 friends from over the years and Iam certain that Iam the only virgin out of all of those hoes(just kidding)LoL.Anyway I just thought to myself (while another one of my friends told me she wasn't a "V"anymore(what the hell was the point of all of that pain they described with some idiot they complain about everyday? And after one of my friends told me she got pregnant (and by the way she was protected but the guy did'nt tell her it broke)I said to myself "I am not doing it" I may not wait until I get married but you won't hear me tell my mama that Im having a baby and I aint even hang my High school diploma on the wall.
--Posted by maroon5gurl
its the right thing to do.
to stay a virgin until you're married is the best choice. you might be tempted sometimes but if you keep to your decision then you will ultimaately be happy about the decision that you've made.
no stds
no unwanted babies
and best of all
no unreciprocated feelings.
--Posted by stephxxanieee
I dig it
I think dig it because I have it with someone I will love the rest life. I understand that sometimes u caught up moment. I'm A virgain and I plan 2 b until I'm married and out school. Sex if u don't use a condom or if somthing happens and it don't work can ruin like if u pregant u drop school and full pontial in life.If they rule out abortion(I don't think that's)will u ruin ur fuiger and if give up adopting the baby might hate u 4ever.So I refues 2 do drugs or have sex(at lest no sex until I'm married).I hope I have helped at lest some1 not 2 have premartil sex if u need advice or any qustions about ANY TOPIC POSSIBLE find me at WHEN GIRLS LIKE GIRLS I'll give advice 2 the 1st 2on 3rd post and post my E-mail add good luckress
--Posted by degrassiemmagurl
prevent urself
if u pledge and u aint gott pledge 4 the world u can just say it 2 urself like me u wont have sex then hey u prevent urself from being called a hoe slut whore hoochie cuz a my man try 2 make a move on me and i tell him that i swore not 2 have sex he'd have no reason 2 call me a slut
--Posted by lilshortstuff11226
prevent urself
if u pledge and u aint gott pledge 4 the world u can just say it 2 urself like me u wont have sex then hey u prevent urself from being called a hoe slut whore hoochie cuz a my man try 2 make a move on me and i tell him that i swore not 2 have sex he'd have no reason 2 call me a slut
--Posted by lilshortstuff11226
prevent urself
if u pledge and u aint gott pledge 4 the world u can just say it 2 urself like me u wont have sex then hey u prevent urself from being called a hoe slut whore hoochie cuz a my man try 2 make a move on me and i tell him that i swore not 2 have sex he'd have no reason 2 call me a slut
--Posted by lilshortstuff11226
prevent urself
if u pledge and u aint gott pledge 4 the world u can just say it 2 urself like me u wont have sex then hey u prevent urself from being called a hoe slut whore hoochie cuz a my man try 2 make a move on me and i tell him that i swore not 2 have sex he'd have no reason 2 call me a slut
--Posted by lilshortstuff11226
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My own way.
Making a promise only makes temptation seem that much worse- you need to trust yourself, you'll do what's right if and/or when the time comes.
--Posted by estrashtia
Unnecessary
I've got no problem with people making these pledges if they want to, but I don't think they are necessary. If a person wants to marry a virgin I don't think they need to make a formal pledge, I think they can just decide not to have sex. I think virginity pledges just make you feel pressured, and like you can't resist temptation on your own. I don't think virginity is all that important or valueable anyway, the fact that you are willing to love a person and pass on their genes should be enough.
--Posted by zamedine
irresponsible
There's so much hype about losing one's virginity, but there's nothing all that special about it. There's a first time for everything. By convincing teens to sign virginity pledges, you're just making them feel even more guilt when they break them than they normally would just by having sex. People who sign virginity pledges are often poorly educated about STDs and birth control, so when people do break their pledges many practice unsafe sex. Educating people about sex and telling them that it's their personal choice is more effective than simply telling them to abstain and having them sign a pledge that they'll probably end up breaking anyway.
--Posted by beckyogg
Lame
Proponents of virginity pledges often say that teenagers are too immature to handle the adult responsibility of sex, but a freakin' *vow of celibacy* sounds pretty adult to me. I've nothing against people who make these pledges, but the adults who try to cram them down peoples' throats are lame.
--Posted by squishylou
By having a pledge and KNOWING you can't, it makes you a thousand times more wanting of it. Virginity, or lack of, should occur on it's own. If you aren't ready until marriage, great, but if you are ready before then, then also great. But like with rules, if you aren't allowed to do something, you'll want to but if you are allowed, then you're less likely to.
--Posted by omgits229
sex is fun, i like sex
of the people i've known who've made virginity pledges it was mostly for religious reasons. i've noticed that most of them aren't doing it for their own reasons; they're doing it because they are afraid that this "sin" will make them look bad in the eyes of God or that they'll be closer to going to hell. they aren't HONESTLY happy with their decision because it means they'll feel guilty for doing anything that feels good sexually. come on people, sex feels good. we all think about it. we all want it, some of us more than others, but all of us want sexual pleasure. sex is part of growing up and knowing your body. if you don't lose your virginity, at least masturbate so you'll know what to tell your lover down the road. sex feels good. orgasms are amazing. so respect what your body is telling you and GO AT IT! ;)
--Posted by bsbgoddess
Diss...
because it makes temptation worse, and plus you would be more curious, and when it happens it happens and if you pledge and you do it you will feel dirty and stupid. so diss it....
--Posted by natbrat938
u never know
u dnt need to make a promise the u dnt knw u can keep for certain.u never know when temtation is going to be too strong for you.
--Posted by ihateunoiloveu
The 1st time hurts!
I would not want to save all that pain and blood for my wedding night. If some girl wants too thats cool. I actually married the person I lost my virginity too and I am glad to say I had practice before our honeymoon night than me laying there like a dead fish the night I lost my virginity.
--Posted by imababymama
I don't see the point in them, really. They just put unnecessary pressure on people, and make people feel guilty when they break them - which most do. If you want to stay a virgin until you get married, fine, but don't go pushing that idea on other people in roadshows and all that crap. Make a promise to yourself - or, if you're religious, a private promise to your god(s) - rather than standing up in front of a congregation and signing a piece of paper or putting on a ring. That promise will mean much more, and if you break it it's a private issue, not a matter for public debate and shame.
--Posted by possessed
nuh uh
I think it's pretty wrong to basically force kids to promise God and their parents that they won't have sex til they're married. Waiting til marriage is a choice, it shouldn't be forced.
--Posted by coolestnerdever
its not the middle ages, folks.
i absolutly hate vigrinity pledges. and groups that say that sex before marrige is a horrible thing to do. virginity is nothing special. i have never thought of it as soo important, or to do with being "pure". not saying that you should have sex asap, i mean, c'mon, STI's and pregnancy are not uncommon, butit just seems like society cares more about how many people you've slept with then what you have to say, and a virginity pledge, to me says "be respected, and look smart. people dont like people who have sex". gahhhhhhhh
--Posted by funny_girl55
I would never take one. Virginity isn't such a big deal to me, and I don't think it's a sin to have sex before marriage. Kids who are just told "Don't have sex" aren't as educated about birht control and STD's so if they break their pledge their more likely to get pregnant. Also, what if you marry somebody and their bad in bed? Or you don't get married till you're like 40?
--Posted by cherriesrkool64
what if he sucks in bed?!
lol i dont wana sound trivial but so many marriages fall apart because of bad sex - if you save it for after the wedding how would you know you and your partner are sexually compatible and right for each other?
--Posted by obi4amdapu6a
virginty pledges
I don't get these things.I think tey are so wrong.I think when youre in love and are readyand the person loves you back its ok.Marriage can screw you over too.
--Posted by ggirlgenie
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