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The suck, but...
They are very hard and stressful. My boyfriend would go out of town for months at time for work. He lived here but would be gone for long periods of time...it's worth the effort if you're both 110% comitted.
--Posted by superlovers2
Great
Yeah, sure, they're hard at times. But eventually if he/she really loves you, you will evntually meet. It's worked for me. so i'm totally for it.
--Posted by dimond_tears
long distance
Long distance could be a good thing if you can trust your significant other. Or if you can handle not seeing them everyday. Personally I would want to be in a long distance relationship.
--Posted by stephenisajerk
I'm in one, and it's working out better than almost any other relationship I've ever seen. As long as both people are very mature and honest, it works out great. If you're the kind of person who develops crushes easily or if you feel the constant need for a different boyfriend or girlfriend, it can't work out. You have to be ready to commit and wait for that person and no one else. Also, both people have to be EXTREMELY trustworthy.
--Posted by thereg0esmygun
Long Distance Relationships..
Alright, soo the long distance thing.. the bad thing about it is.. not being able to see the person as much as possible. But if you really truely love that person then you will understand that when you see each other it means the world to you, like its even more special and you fall for that person all over again.. And you know what its sorta easier cause then you dont get in fights over him/her being to busy to hang out.
--Posted by candiikisses
The Distance
I always said I would never be in a long distance relationship. they are soo hard. BUT...im in a long distance relationship. i cant help it i just love my boyfriend so much and i no that he loves me just as much and more. it is really hard cause he cant always be there when i need him and vice versa. we are always on the phone with each other. this is the best relationship i have ever been in though. long distance relationships can work out as long as there is trust and you tell each other the truth no matter what.
--Posted by candykisses31
Im in one rite now...
theres a major plus to having a BF in another state...U never get to see them so when u do see them ur sooo much happier to see them.. I LUV U JAKE!!! MWAH!!
--Posted by emotionalprfctn
Depends
on the person your with because they don't always work out and some do i hate it when I don't talk to them for like 3 days straight and have no way of seeing them....thats sucks...
--Posted by sexiness099
Long Distance Relationships
Long distant relationships can work out if both people are willing to be work at it. I am in one right now and at first I couldn't take it but as the days go by its ok. My boyfriend is in college 45 mins away so I get to see him every 2-3 weekends. As long as there is communication, love and trust, the relationship should survive.
Having him away from me makes me realize that I love him even more.
--Posted by Tee7688
Yes and no
I'm in a long distance relationship I live in San Antonio and he lives in Austin and if the person you love and you urself are willing to comitt to each other it'll work but if there is no trust it'll just fall apart.
--Posted by babygurl242
Absence makes the heart grow fonder
My guy is a missionary right now, so he's gone... it kinda sucks sometimes but it's a really good test. The only way I keep in contact with him is snail mail... but I think it's more romantic getting love letters. so in my case I don't mind it at all. Not to mention how pleased I am of him that he can take such a big sacrifice to ensure his future. It really tells you a lot about the person. Lucky for me he's ALWAYS got a male companion with him too, just in case he needs to be kept in line. haha but I'm not worried and neither is he because we love and trust each other. You just need to meet the right guy.
--Posted by supa_hypa_chink
They're hard but...
I'm in a long distance relationship. It sucks. We're so far apart, I'm in Canada and he's in Aussie. But we always say we're going to meet. We've got songs. We talk on the phone, on the computer. Anyway we can. He says "we're a match made in heaven", "Soulmates never die" all that romantic stuff. We totally trust each other. And long distance relationships only make you want the other one more. So I am totally with long-distance relationships, I know this one is made to last forever and forever, even the afterlife!!!
--Posted by emo_child
ok
their ok...Im in a long distance relationship..it kinda sucks though, but i deal with it!
--Posted by X0_ur_baby_gurl
Its so hard
I'm in a long distance relationship, and its really hard, I miss him all the time. We talk on the phone every chance we get, it we cant talk we'll text each other. I love him with all my heart n he loves me, thats all that matters. The love makes you able 2 do it and get thru it
--Posted by VoluptuosDiva
Yes!
Long distance relationships can be sad and good at the same time. U do miss a lot, but then also never get tired of them. U can also find out if that person is worth it, if he/she doesnt give up on being w/ , then hes definetely a keeper!
--Posted by princessamber91
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To Be Honest.
I've known so many girls with long-distance relationships. Everythings great for a while, but they always break-up in the longrun. It's pointless being with someone that's not even THERE, literally. Not only are you heightening the chances of them cheating on you behind your back, but you're making yourself a big mistake by talking to them on the phone knowing you won't see them till next year INSTEAD of breaking up, staying friends, and getting on with your life.
--Posted by jennyxo
It's so hard...
It's so hard to stay tight with someone with just talking... trust me, I know. You can talk via IM, telephone, etc. but people change.
For me, I'm alot less shy on the phone and when I'm IMing people than I am when I see them in person. I don't really understand how people can say they know someone who they haven't physically seen in a long time.
However, if the person's going to be away for a short amount of time, then I'd say go for it. I can see how it would be hard to break up with someone you really love who's moving away, but I think in the end it just results in heartbreak.
--Posted by temporaryacct
LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS ALWAYS HURT!
Distance relationships dont always work, but some long distance relationships do tend to work out. but from experiences believe me gurls long distance relationships dont work!!!!!!!!!!!!
--Posted by cherrygurl2u
Long Distance Relationships
there not worth it! the only time i would have a long distance realtionship is in the unfaitful way because i know my parter id being unfateful alreaady so its nothin and i have never had a faitful long distince relationship and i think inever will.
--Posted by misprissy
no no no
u cant have one unless u see him or her every weekend but they could cheat on u
--Posted by ksaw130
fuck no!
I could not be in a loong distance relationship. I am the typethat like to spend time with my boyfriend so i could never have a long distance relationship.
--Posted by capricorn_90
NO
Long Distance Relationships sux! my bf moved 2 FL last year & we were still goin out.. we naver got 2 talk or ne thing so we ended ^ breakin ^ like a week after he moved!
--Posted by xxnorthchickxx
they suck and probably wont work if your young
its all good and fun for the first few weeks etc-but it also depends how far is long distance. states and countries-you can forget it in my opinion unless your old enough to leave and travel. but a friendship can still last.
--Posted by gunit411
not my thing
--Posted by neicy2504
Not for me
I think that it's a waste cause he could be cheatin on u but if u two love each other that much I say do it
--Posted by yazzknowsall
um..noo
if u can love...and ur bf can love harder then itz cool. but u nevr no wen ur man cud b cheatin on u or sumthn so its best that they r rite there. so u can monitor them! i mean its not that u cant trust them its that u cant trust n e 1 else...u basically cant trust nature itself..its crazy!
--Posted by squeakyq
uh ohhh
EXTREMELY difficult. I had an 8 month one once its it was so hard. I got to see him twice a month if I was lucky. It also takes incredible amounts of trust. More power to ya if you're up to it though.
--Posted by candylipgloss89
They suck!
They suck unless you can see each other every weekend, believe me i had to learn the hard way! But if you see and talk to each other EVERY week/weekend than it should be all good.
--Posted by hart93austyn
Nope Not into It
Long distance relationships when 2 are in different states don't work out. Don't care what anyone says, they don't work. Eventually afll apart. If it's 2 like in different colleges, but nearby still, can possibly work out, but sometimes becomes a trust issue. Had a bf in high school for 2 yrs, went to college and he was still in high school. He was very jealous cuz I was living the college life. Ended having bad breakup. Another bf in NY, I was in NY for the summer, had to go back to PA, things stayed cool, we're friends, but have to understand if we find others. Even though would be messed up.
--Posted by jqui313
ARMY GUY
I ENDED UP GOING WITH SOMEBODY WHO WAS GOING TO THE ARMY IN A MONTH. HIS RECRUITER TOLD US THAT WE SHOULD END IT BEFORE IT GOT TO SERIOUS AND WE WOULD REGRET IT. WELL HE LEFT AND THE 4 MONTHS THAT HES BEEN DOWN THERE I HAVE ONLY TALKED TO HIM ONCE AND ALL THE TIME HE WOULD WRITE ABOUT THE ARMY. I CANT RELATE TO THAT BECAUSE I DONT KNOW WHAT ARMY LIFE IS ABOUT. TIME WENT BY AND I STARTED GROWING APART. WE ARE TECHNICALLY STILL TOGETHER BUT I DONT WANT TO BE. ITS HARD DEALING WITH SOMEBODY WHO YOU HARDLY EVER SEE OR SPEAK TO.
--Posted by babitaz07
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