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summer flings

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
170
Digs

OMG.i HAD A SUMMER FLING
ok theres this guy I had a summer fling with on a month long cruise, it was so cute.
--Posted by fashiongurl143




YES
I love summer flings i had one this summer with this guy name Jahvon i broke up with him b4 i started school its fun + he was so fun but now im with my boyfriend Daeshon. Jahvon was my best friends cousin and thats another reason it didnt work because they were close and she knew i wasnt really serious about him
--Posted by kinah_07



yes
i think that u should have a little romance in the summer waiting for u after school
--Posted by ksaw130



its alright
it happens. but its a real strain if your in a relationship or something cuz think about it-its technically cheating. however it can make or break a relationship-i wouldnt do it if i had a bf already-but it your single? thats what summer nights are all about :) xoxo
--Posted by gunit411




i had plenty
--Posted by neicy2504





i have never had one, but if a did i'm sure i would enjoy it.
--Posted by iwantmycake




hmmm
Theres nothing wrong with a summber hookup aslong as its just like.. ONE PERSON ahaha
--Posted by glamour.decay




my summer fling thing
Hell yea baby, i do the whole summer hook-up thing except without the sex. I just find sum1 and we do the whole boyfriend & girlfriend thing that whole summer. Its totally fun especially if your on vacation. I see nothing wrong wit summerflings at all... but at the same time it depends on whut u consider a summerfling.
--Posted by gangsta_girl75



<3
Although they don't last long, they're still fun and memorable.
--Posted by xoxo_kaith




welll yeah, i don't see a problem with it, as long as it's clear that's what it is. getting action and summer... sounds pretty good to me. but if it gets more complicated, which i suppose many are apt to do...well, someone will get hurt, and that's a problem.
--Posted by thedanish




Dig
It's part of life, and sometimes it cant teach you a really good lesson, other times you can meet someone that you really love and have a future with, so no matter what, SOMETHING good comes with it.
--Posted by burningdownlove



oh yeah
they r awesome, so passionate and like u don't really think what u are doing cuz it's summer and well w.e. but its weird after cuz like u can end up really liking them but u know its gotta end cuz summer is coming to an end
--Posted by analok




TOTALY
ME AND MY BOYFRIEND MET IN SUMMER SCHOOL AND STARTED GOING OUT IN JULY AND WERE STILL GOING OUT! WE DONT GO 2 THE SAME SCHOOLS BUT WE MAKE THE SAME EFFORT TO SEE EACHOTHER AND IT WORKS OUT FOR BOTH OF US! I FELL IN LOVE WITH HIM LIKE A COUPLE OF MONTHS AGO AND I CANT PICTURE BEING WITH ANYBODY ELCE RIGHT NOW! I COULDENT BE HAPPIER!
--Posted by iloveedwin




This past summer i had a fling. During the summer we were in love, and now we dont even talk to each other!! :) lol
--Posted by citybabe4life




yea yo
i dig it. i never had 1 buh i think i would like it.
--Posted by tiandez



59
Disses


It sucks
I'd rather be with a guy for the rest of my ife not just for the summer,it can be slutty too.But it doesn't matter though.Gurlz do what they gotta do, be a slut or not.
--Posted by dacutestchikk




SLUTY
--Posted by pinkpuff1210




ive had a couple but i always feel so bad after.
--Posted by happybob




Its to hard to say goodbye=/
--Posted by youaresimplymylifex3




He's not serious, a waste of time!!!
I'm truely in love and we been dating for a year now! We got to together in the summer but we knew each other before that. He's so commited I couldn't imagine a "FLING" He's the only one I've ever really kissed and I don't want to spread that and my stories around. We're planing on staying together and getting married some day!
--Posted by calicogirl17





grose
I dont understand y people have summer flings wen i bet u have someone special fr u back at home and u dont even realize it w/e not my problem to deal with cuz i have a boyfriend and i wouldnt disrespect him like that unlike other girls.!!!!
--Posted by sesshygurl




mixed feelings
holiday romance type relationships are wicked at the time and being summer you act more confident and feel sexier however once you come home its a real downer and hard to get over xxx emmaroo
--Posted by xoxemmarooxox




I wouldn't do it
I want someone for longer than just a summertime. It would kill me!
--Posted by xsuicidalangel02x



hate them
i dont if im the onli person who has noticed this but every summer it seems like theres somebody knew that comes from Out of the Blue and really sparks something but then It doesnt last maybe a few months but the it like over i hate and like the first one said i want them to stick around not up and disappear out of the clear Blue skyy im so sick Of it
--Posted by misha1234567114




i don't like it, i think it's bad for yourself because you don't learn to be in good relationships and you'd get used to being with guys for a little bit. i can't really explain it that well, hopefully you understand what i'm saying.
--Posted by mkapm13





I don't see the point anymore. I used to do them, in middle school, but to me there's a point where why even bother because normally someone just gets attatched for it to end. It's almost the same as friends with benefits because you don't have to end up caring. Kind of silly.
--Posted by hislilarmybrat



too risky
I don't think its slutty considering there is three months in summer and most kids in highschool and middle school don't last much longer than that so its really no different than dating the rest of the year its just the whole fling thing sounds risky to me I mean there is too many chances for emotions getting in the way
--Posted by lily_ann_sabrina




So Sad :(
They are great while they last, but when you have to leave and end it it sucks so bad its terribly sad thats the only reason I dis it, if it weren't for the fact that you had to end it and leave they would be amazing!
--Posted by candykisses3739



definitely not.
getting physical and then breaking it off? no thanks. developing feelings and then breaking it off? no thanks.
--Posted by certainstatic




it's okay. but..
it sucks when you want to be with them for longer, and.. you have to leave or visa-versa. it's happened to me. and, i didn't like the fact that we broke up. but, we had to. so.. it's nice while it lasts. but, whatever. i don't care.
--Posted by muhryuh



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