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abstinence

what do you think?
dig it or dis it
482
Digs


It's Awesome
Sex should be special and is made to be done with someone you love. The way people sleep around these days makes me sick, especially with all these STDs going around. I hate to burst your bubble, but condoms aren't always reliable, and some STDs can be passed from person to person even if you do use a condom. Besides, I'm a Christian, so I'm going to wait till marriage, thank you very much. Wouldn't it be romantic for you to tell the man the marry that you waited all this time, just for him?
--Posted by pooki_cooki





I think it's really special to save yorself for a guy you really love.Girls that sleep around don't even know that they're gurlz,they think they're female dogs and female dogs are the only animls that get screwed all the time.
--Posted by dacutestchikk




It should be special
i totally agree with abstinence. you should wait until you find that right person. i believe that there is that special person for everyone so you should wait. and if you do find that person they will be willing to wait for as long as you want. i practice abstinence and i am proud of it.
--Posted by candykisses31



Abstinence = a good thing
I think that doing things with your boyfriend isnt bad but sex is a no-no. Please people, wait until your married ! Im not trying to sound like your pastor or parents or anything like that but I mean, I admit its hard for me .. like REALLY HARD, but when its your first time on your honeymoon night, think of how much more special it would be. I love my boyfriend and he knows that but I am not giving my virginity to him unless we are married. Once your virginity is gone, its gone forever and I think that should only be taken by your husband. God didnt make sex so that we could be with as many people as possible and it not mean much, he made it do join a husband an wife together stronger than anyother realtionship.
--Posted by smmerluvn



i sorta dig it
i dig it because i'm a christian. but i think i'm gonna pre marital sex because i'm gonna be one of those gurls who falls for this guy who told me he loved me. but if i was to have sex i would use protection
--Posted by neeka_b




not for me
it may be for sum, but i have sex with my fiance and wouldnt have it anyothr way
--Posted by liams_fiance_06



Sex Before Marriage Is Wrong
Why would you want to have sex with someone when you know that your alls relationship could probably not last. If a guy doesn't respect me enough to wait then he isn't the guy for me.
--Posted by sballqueen05




love it
I think that you should wait until you find that special one because if you dont most of the time all u get out of that is pleasure for a little for maybe a few minutes
--Posted by bunnyboo8




Why not wait?
--Posted by southlake




Abstinance until marriage
Abstinance is very important. God did create woman and man to join together as one in marriage and have sex. Sex is a great and healthy thing but it is meant for marriage. People think that once you have met that one special someone you can have sex with them. That's not true at all. I have met that special someone that I want to be with for the rest of my life but we are going to wait until the wonderful special wedding night cuz we love each other that much to wait probably about 6 more years cuz im just 16. If a guy will do that for you then you know he loves you so much and God has chosen him for you.
--Posted by lizash





yes i dig it
HEY WATS POPPIN YA'LL YOU FEMALES OUT THERE YEAH I DIG BEING A VIRGIN AND IM A FRESHMAN AND MAH BOYFRIEND IS A JUNIOR AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 2 YEARS AND 3 MONTH AN HE STILL DONT THINK IM READY BUT I AM!!BUT HE SAID THAT HE WILL BE READY WHEEN I AM BECAUSE HE IS NOT GOING TO PUSH ME!!
--Posted by texas_gurl09




....
virginity is a great thing too keep, so stay abstinent! When you do there will be a lower number of std's in the country!
--Posted by greengangsta




FREE LIFE
Being a virign is good...DUH!!! you don't have to worry about STDS like there are so many ppl in the world who die because of em'......stay a virgin as long as you can..you'll know when the right time is to not be one and who the right person is!!!
--Posted by ortonsgurl




wait until marriage
I think you should wait cause one it is a sin to have sex befor marriage and why not wait all they want is that and then they are gone and your just going to be labled somthing you do not want me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 an da half years know and i am a freashmen and he is junior and we are both on fire for god and god is our number 1 priority and that should go for you life so dont loose somthing so precious for somthing that is going to last for a couple of minutes and when you could get a stds from it so wait until marriage if you have any questions e-mail me at punkrocker4u15@yahoo.com thanks god bless
--Posted by prettypants16




wait until marriage
I think you should wait cause one it is a sin to have sex befor marriage and why not wait all they want is that and then they are gone and your just going to be labled somthing you do not want me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 an da half years know and i am a freashmen and he is junior and we are both on fire for god and god is our number 1 priority and that should go for you life so dont loose somthing so precious for somthing that is going to last for a couple of minutes and when you could get a stds from it so wait until marriage if you have any questions e-mail me at punkrocker4u15@yahoo.com thanks god bless
--Posted by prettypants16



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Disses

would'nt know a thing about it
AS bad as i' wanna have sex i'm afraid b/c there is so much out there now-a-days you can't trust anyone. I've been with my b/f for a year and 3 weeks but he's so ready and I feel like I wanna experience it so bad but too scared.
--Posted by luscious3700



Hmmm... I dont think so
Im a virgin and im only 14 and all, but sumtimes your hormones can get out of control, and i know that if i was with the right guy and i had an urge to do sumthin with him, i most likely wouldnt fight the feeling
--Posted by sososnoop



So your going to marry someone without slepping with them???????????
Ok, IF YOU DO THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE GOING TO END UP CHEATING.ALL I'M SAYING ID THAT YOU SHOULD HAVE EXPERIENCE.
--Posted by fashiongurl143




doesn't work
It doesn't work b/c sum people are special(ed) and don't think there having sex when they giv lik blow job or get it from tha baq or withdrawl(when the guy puts it in and takes it out b4 he cums... and then there are adult that tell teens that condoms jus flatout don't work and that there better off not using a condom at all. soo yea that y i say abstence doesn't work. if u wanna hav sex jus finger or do handjobs. that to me seems tha safest.lol
--Posted by crazilollipop




????
ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS SOME PEOPLE SAY WIT TILL YOUR MARRIED BUT CHECK THIS OUT............ WHAT IF U NEVER GET MARRIED??????? JUST SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT
--Posted by pheaandjasmin




pointless
i dig being a virgin right now but ill probably lose it when i find a guy i really love. if you trust him and know he loves you whats the point of waiting until marriage to enjoy yourselves?
--Posted by midwestgirl88





sometimes u just can`t wait... lol
--Posted by punk_girl_punk




LIFE
Abstinece is a cool thing, but everybody can't hold out! I know I couldn't. I mean if you and the partner you choose are ready, then you are ready. Honestly you are going to have sensations, and temptation is hard to fight. just do you, and "do" who ever you want to, if you take the right precautions.
--Posted by jazo88



ah..
im glad im a virgin now, but i know ill lose it be4 im 16.
--Posted by archiez





i think that it is a really silly idea. i mean in this day and agr you can use contraception and stuff. u r not risking a pregancy, or STI's is u use them properly. im not saying that anyone should sleep with everyone. it is a special thing, but that's not to say you cant sleep with someone you love and have been with for a while, as long as it legal and both people want it.
--Posted by nemi_night






i am still a virgin. but when i'll feel ready and when i find the right guy, i wont wait. whats the point in waiting till you get married?! what if you and your future husband dont "match" in bed? sex is an important part of our lifes and i think you have to be sure, that its ok. i wouldnt be very happy if i had a great man for a husband, but we wouldnt get along in bed. who wants to suffer for another 50 years (or as much as your marriage lasts!) i say, try it before marriage. but not with just anyone and of course, use protection.
--Posted by flafofca



??
i'm not a virgin and i'm comfortable with it i found the right person and if your ready and don't want to wait go for it.
--Posted by sioux_gurl_07





It's cool, and all, but I feel like you should do whatever you feel like doing.
--Posted by tnsweetie227




NO WAY
I am a complete sex addict. I could never do it.
--Posted by silentslits



Decision
See I used to think that It was this HUGE deal and that if I had sex then I was horrible. I was raised with abstinence. But then I met this guy, that i love more than anything in the world. And I didn't want to wait until I got married. I knew the consequences of it (even though a lot of people thought that I didn't) but when you are really in love with someone and you love them back, and you are ready, then you have to make your own decisions. And abstinence is a decision...
--Posted by dyingtodie995



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