Experts often talk about a cycle of violence that traps many abused girls in abusive teen relationships. The first stage of the cycle is called tension-building. During this time, the girl may feel anxious--like a volcano may erupt at any moment. The next stage is the explosion. This stage is the most intense and can be very violent. The abuser may scream, threaten, blame or physically harm his/her partner. Following this explosion, there is a honeymoon period. The abuser apologizes for the violent behavior, may promise it will never happen again, or shower his/her partner with gifts. The abused forgives the violent behavior and the cycle continues again.
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